What was this?

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What was this?
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Fri, 06-22-2007 - 7:13am
Hey everyone,
The other day my guy told me that he'd like to watch me get myself off with one of my toys, so we tried it and it was really really hot, he went crazy for it, however while i was using my toy something happened that hasn't before and although he was majorly turned on by it, i was kind of shocked..when i was using my vibrator, a lot and i mean a lot of "liquid" is all that i can call it squirted out of me.
At first I was quite embarrassed as it shocked me but he got so turned on by it that we just got carried away but i'm still really curious as to what this is...
Has this happpened to anyone else and if so what was it?
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Registered: 11-13-2006
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 10:44pm

I FE as well. A lot, with G-spot, finger stimulation. My partner LOVES it. He laughs, hoots & hollers, at times during it. He is SO turned on by it - tells me "yeah baby, come for me, squirt for me". The other nite in fact, during oral, he said after "OMG, you squirted all over my face" - i said "Im sorry!" & he said "no way, i loved it". :)

of course though, I still am always afraid i will pee too. I KNOW its FE, but there ARE times with those strong vaginal contractions during O, that i KNOW urine leaks out as well. But, what can ya do?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 06-23-2007 - 6:55am

The sensitivity happens to your clitoris, during clitoral stimulation. If you were also having intercourse when you had your orgasm, you would be able to continue, but you would stop stimulating your clitoris.

The long orgasms usually occur with a g-spot orgasm. They are different in nature and do not create the same kind of sensitivity that clitoral stimulation does. They can also be from an orgasm that results from a combination of clitoral and g-spot stimulation.

Here's an article that you might find interesting:

The Dire Truth about Conventional Orgasms
An excerpt from "Unleashing her G-Spot Orgasm"
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/sxarousal/0,,9w9z10xq,00.html

Here's an excerpt from the article:

"Not only do many women report G-spot orgasms to be highly satisfying, but the duration of a G-spot orgasm is considerably longer than the normal vaginal or clitoral orgasm. The G-spot orgasm often lasts 45 seconds; with common reports of two-minute orgasms and rare reports of orgasms lasting between 20 and 40 minutes!"



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Registered: 03-04-2007
Sat, 06-23-2007 - 7:38am
Very interesting and informative!! Thank you!
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Registered: 02-17-2007
Sun, 06-24-2007 - 11:22pm
It is a different kind of orgasm. A clitoral orgasm will usually require that you completely stop whatever you are doing, but a g-spot orgasm doesn't require any recovery time. Kind of like the difference between being tickled on your armpits vs. a soft, long, sensual caress down your armpits. lol Strange imagery, I know, but yeah. That kind of explains it better.

 

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 9:43am

That's a clitoral orgasm. You can get very sensitive from those and take a few minutes before you want to touch there again. Its a good one but there are other kinds of orgasm that just peak you and hold you there like g-spot which was what this one was (although there was clitoral stimulation going on too). And yes ... even though I lost track of time that one lasted several minutes. omg I want to do it again LOL.

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Mon, 06-25-2007 - 9:54am

FE does feel a lot like you are releasing urine because it comes from your uthera too. That's where the glands exit from the female prostrate. That is also, I believe, why most women can't have an actual g-spot orgasm, because you HAVE to be willing to release it and it DOES feel so much like you are peeing that they hold back and don't allow themselves to mentally let go. Usually though, unless your bladder spincter is damaged (which can happen with stressful chidlbirth unfortunately), it is almost impossible to pee (other than maybe leak a little if the sex is really rough) during sex (or arousal). I still have a hard time peeing afterwards till all the arousal fades lol.

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Mon, 06-25-2007 - 7:13pm

".... a g-spot orgasm doesn't require any recovery time. Kind of like the difference between being tickled on your armpits vs. a soft, long, sensual caress down your armpits. lol Strange imagery, I know, but yeah. That kind of explains it better...."

it does, thanks, but still one question which I think I know the answer to already.

I assume the finger needs to go inside the vagina for the g-spot orgasm?

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Mon, 06-25-2007 - 7:48pm
*I assume the finger needs to go inside the vagina for the g-spot orgasm?*

Yes. His finger(s) should go inside your vagina, and start making a *come hither* motion towards the front, just above the top of your pubic bone.



edit: You can also get toys specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot, if you don't currently have a guy to help you with this. My DW LOVES her G-spot vibe.

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Edited 6/25/2007 7:51 pm ET by bostonsteve
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Mon, 06-25-2007 - 8:17pm
Adding to what Steve has already said about the g-spot orgasm, in the right position, the head of the penis can also stimulate your g-spot. He may have to not thrust as deep, but it's worth it! (Or, he can lie still and you can use your PC muscles and some movement too.) For us, laying in a "T" position works best for this. We usually scissor our legs, and our pelvic regions join -- thus forming a "T" with our bodies. That position also leaves your body exposed, so other stimulation is very easy too.


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Tue, 06-26-2007 - 10:33am

A lot of times doggy style works too for g-spot stimulation... it all depends on where your specific g-spot is. My BF is shaped to hit me just right (slight upward curve and just the right length) .. with him on top no matter how we are doing it, the head of his penis rubs against my g-spot. I never really liked missionary position but even like that he can get me off.

Another good position to try for this is the man upright holding your legs against his chest (this works good if your bed is the right height where he can stand) and thrusting just deep enough that he can feel the head of his penis brushing against the front-side of your vagina. That was how I had my first g-spot orgasm and FE.

Good luck!