What would you choose?

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-22-2005
What would you choose?
13
Tue, 11-08-2005 - 11:03am

If you were in a relationship, and you had to choose between one of these two options, which one would you choose?

A) A man who satisfies you emotionally in every aspect possible. He treats you like a woman should be treated and you never doubt his love for you. But on the other hand, your are not satisfied with your sex life with him at all.

or

B) A man who satisfies you sexually in every aspect possible. It is the best sex you have ever had in your life. But on the other hand, he doesn't satisfy you emotionally and isn't as sweet or caring as you would like him to be. He isn't romantic and sometimes can be distant with you.

Would you choose to be satisfied emotionally even if you have to sacrifice your sex life for it? Or would you sacrifice your feelings for a great sex life?

Just curious...

BABY #3!!
 
Pregnancy ticker

Pages

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Wed, 11-09-2005 - 11:10am

Stated exactly the way Mrs. Para stated it when I joked with her about me becoming some day, LOL!!!

Anyway, I think even we 'men' (those of us in relationships anyway) would choose option A in regards to our female partners. Either a partner is someone you absolutely love, or that partner is nothing more than a toy that can be replaced.

 

C  H  A  R  A  C  T  E  R

Avatar for katmandoo2001
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 9:35am

"But isn't sex physical and emotional?" No, not for some men. Sex is a sport or competition or just scratching an itch for some. Men seem to find it much easier to separate sex from love than women do.

And just because one has a FWB arrangement with a friend, doesn't mean that there won't be any emotional ties. That's ususally the reason for the arrangement in the first place!

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-15-2005
Thu, 11-10-2005 - 9:42am

no doubt about this one, my answer is A).like to be pampered. can always try to learn teach coach about sexual needs and desires.

kate

Pages