What is wrong? (he didn't come)

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What is wrong? (he didn't come)
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Sun, 11-25-2007 - 2:52pm

My partner did not come last time we make love.

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 11-25-2007 - 3:57pm

Nothing is wrong and him not getting off is not a big deal.

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Sun, 11-25-2007 - 8:39pm

I have been dating a woman for the last year.

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Sun, 11-25-2007 - 9:17pm

Welcome to the board, annie1229.

As Tish said, sometimes it just doesn't happen, but the sex is still enjoyable. Try not to put pressure on him about it. Sometimes, if he fears he'll have it happen again, it will pretty much assure him that it will happen.

I don't think the climax is always the best part for either partner. The expression that goes into the entire exchange can be a very powerful thing, and can be very satisfying.





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Sun, 11-25-2007 - 9:22pm

Welcome to the board, softballs. (Is that what you would like us to call you?)

Thanks for sharing your experiences. I think your message is one that many need to read and understand.

Congratulations on finding someone so special to share your life with!





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Sun, 11-25-2007 - 10:10pm

Hey Softballs, are you the same Softballs that used to post on the *Going Down* board over on the Cosmo channel

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Mon, 11-26-2007 - 5:57pm

Thank you Misty_Mae.

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Mon, 11-26-2007 - 6:01pm

Years ago I did post but dont remember where.

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Mon, 11-26-2007 - 10:05pm
Well, I'm really glad you decided to post -- welcome out of lurkdom. With great advice like that, I look forward to reading more of your posts.




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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 12:07am
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Registered: 08-02-2004
Tue, 11-27-2007 - 1:51am
It could be that your lover had masturbated within a few days of your lovemaking. If that happens, he could have a hard time getting an orgasm. I wouldn't worry about it, I'm sure he's having fun with you no matter what.