What's more fun for YOU - giving a ha...

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Sun, 02-12-2006 - 10:32am

What's more fun for YOU - giving a handjob or giving a blowjob?



  • A handjob.
  • A blowjob.
  • A combination of both that ends with a handjob.
  • A combination of both that ends with a blowjob.
  • I don't like giving either one.


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Registered: 02-13-2006
Tue, 02-28-2006 - 3:40pm

i voted for both i start by rubbing it then move on to a blow job and i finish by swallowing it all. but then i always did like to swallow

Eliza

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Registered: 01-05-2006
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 12:29am

Boy how do I put this into words....

What kind of response have you gotten from women that like a finger in there too? and how do i say this: what is done with the finger that isn't done with the dick or penis etc. and

By caress her breasts -how does that help what is happening below?

JS

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Sun, 03-05-2006 - 2:18pm
sjud, many women like fingers to simulate a penis going in and out as they get their clits licked..Its all about timing.. and its all about what each individual woman likes. While your fingers are in her, if you know where to find it, the "G" spot can be stimulated as well while licking the clit. sjud, oral sex is an art learned new with each woman. While most women like about the same things, not all women like the same things...
During sex sometimes men will stroke a womans belly, breasts, inner thighs. They all have their own sensations, that may add to a womans pleasure while you are giving her oral sex.
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Sun, 03-05-2006 - 4:18pm

Why does a man like to lick a womans vaginal area what does it do for him-not sure how to put into words-When using your fingers what do you do while inside...

How is stroke the belly and breast helping in oral-how is it adding ...what are you experieing inside what kind of emotional and physical thing do you experience inside? how does that help you and her; when you say pleasure -is that an emotional and or physical response?

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Sun, 03-05-2006 - 5:32pm
If you know where your clit is and how it works, you know why a man licks there..It can cause intense pleasure for the woman... I do it because it causes physical pleasure for her and that causes me emotional pleasure, because I made her feel good.
Stroking the breasts and belly feel good to her(physically)..The combination of pleasures feel good to her physically
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Sun, 03-05-2006 - 6:36pm

how do you feel when you stroke her belly and breast -is it an emotional -relational etc response in you?

JudithS

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Sun, 03-05-2006 - 6:38pm

thank you -forgot to say that and this helps..

JS

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 7:58am

how do you feel when you stroke her belly and breast -is it an emotional -relational etc response in you?

Yes JudithS, I get pleasure emotionally by giving her pleasure.. Im glad to do it for her.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Mon, 03-06-2006 - 8:01am
judithS... remember that sex is BOTH giving and receiving. I receive because it is physically pleasurable, and I give her pleasure because I love her and I want nothing more than for her to feel both physical and emotional pleasure.
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Mon, 03-06-2006 - 9:58am

Sometimes questions are my only way of putting things into words.

So when you are receiving physical pleasure -when you are saying giving her pleasure what does that look like to you -what are you doing if anything-which there has to be something physical and tangible? to her Is it the giving of semen or is it something else?.. I recognize there is a giving and receiving but it appears to me that the man is giving semen also (as a part of the giving) and that is a giving and her receiving it, is a receiving to her? Is that also how a guy sees it? or am i wrong or right?

(do you have an emotional connection and where does the emotional connection come in it for a guy/you?)

YOur answers help-i benefit from more as well.. Clearing up confusion inside of me

JudithS