What's with my husband & how can I help?

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Registered: 07-29-2004
What's with my husband & how can I help?
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Tue, 04-15-2008 - 4:05pm
Well, I guess I shouldn't be complaining because my DH is one of those guys who doesn't fall asleep right after the act. However, before intercourse he only touches my vagina. He either stimulates me with his hands or orally. I have tried to teach him how to touch me with his hands softer, but he doesn't catch on too well. He seems to be reluctant for me to touch him at all. He keeps his bottom half always below me and I almost have to be a contortionist to play with him. I have told him I like touching him but he doesn't change.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 04-15-2008 - 4:33pm

Welcome to the board, douri.

I don't think taking the bulls by the horn and just doing what you would like to do with him (those things you think he would enjoy) is going to scream that you are more experienced than he is. You could have seen those things in porn, or had fantasies about doing them.

Since it appears that you have tried talking to him, then perhaps it is time to show him.

I say go for it!







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Registered: 12-12-2006
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 10:38am
Douri.........according to what you posted on "Ask Mr. Answerman".......your problems in the bedroom are just symptoms of your REAL problems outside the bedroom!
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Registered: 07-29-2004
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 4:04pm
Yes, you are probably right.