Whats with the penis?
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Whats with the penis?
| Sun, 07-04-2004 - 4:17pm |
Now, I need to find a way to word this so that it comes out and across the right way. But What is with a man and his penis?? Donno if men in general are like this, but my man seems to have this thing with his. He likes to massage his balls, but not to get off or anything, but because it feels good. Whats with that?? I have no idea if this is normal, since I dont think that this is something that men do in front of people. And I cant just ask someone "So do you like to sit and massage your balls?" But he sits with one hand in his pants, in front of the tv, computer and when he is on the phone. (not all the time, but these are just exaples of when he does it) Whats even weirder (is that a word?)is that he can sit with his hand down under, and then use the same hand to eat. How gross is that?
Now don't anyone come and tell me to end my relationship over this. (for anyone who read my other messages about my relationship, this has been going on since we started dating - nothing to do with the sex) I can handle it, there are some things you can't change about a person, but I am just wondering what is up with a man and his penis & balls?

I would say ask him why he does it.
Leticia
Have you ever pressed the sides of the forehead (the temples ) when you had a headache, it is a good energy point to massage when having headache. But did you know that it was an accupressure point? Some of these points (some of them , otherwise we would not have the need for accupunturists) come naturally for us, and the penis area being very sensitive, is one of them.
accupressure points is a deep subject to learn before you appreciate or discard it, which I was fortunate to have a dabble in.
as for him doing this in semi-public, like Tish said, ask him.
Why would you think anyone would tell you to leave him? Or are you thinking of leaving him over it? I could think of lots worse things guys could do....and if it bothers you, then tell him not to do it in front of you.
As for eating with that hand, everyone should wash their hands before eating, no matter what they've been touching.....and there are probably other things he might touch that could be dirtier than that.
"because I can." I know it feels good, too, but my own theory, after raising sons, is that it provides a sense of security and calm. When they were excited or scared, they would reach for their penis. I think they just never outgrow that.