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Whats wrong with me?! owww! advice plz!
| Tue, 09-21-2004 - 1:28pm |
Hi All,
I need some advice, my question is sort of similar to the post "Ouchie". I have been with my BF for 8 months, and never really had any probs having sex. We do use extra lubrication, and normally things are fine. Well about 2 weeks ago, he was giving me oral sex and then after we proceeded to intercourse (w/o extra lube, just his saliva) and it sort of hurt a little, then after he climaxed, it started to burn. So i washed up and then the next day, i was itching.. and i was itching for about 5 days. It just passed finally a day or two ago, so i assumed i was ready for sex again. So last night, my BF and i tried it again, and this time when he entered me, it burned and it hurt, and after he pulled out, it was stinging again...now this morning, i feel that little "itching" feeling again... what is up with this??? AHHH.. i want to enjoy sex! Not hurt! Do you think it had something to do with his saliva then entering to have sex? Or, a tear and it hasnt healed? I dont want to be burning and in pain all the time, when before we were fine. I do have a gyno appt next week, but i wanted some advice asap :)
I need some advice, my question is sort of similar to the post "Ouchie". I have been with my BF for 8 months, and never really had any probs having sex. We do use extra lubrication, and normally things are fine. Well about 2 weeks ago, he was giving me oral sex and then after we proceeded to intercourse (w/o extra lube, just his saliva) and it sort of hurt a little, then after he climaxed, it started to burn. So i washed up and then the next day, i was itching.. and i was itching for about 5 days. It just passed finally a day or two ago, so i assumed i was ready for sex again. So last night, my BF and i tried it again, and this time when he entered me, it burned and it hurt, and after he pulled out, it was stinging again...now this morning, i feel that little "itching" feeling again... what is up with this??? AHHH.. i want to enjoy sex! Not hurt! Do you think it had something to do with his saliva then entering to have sex? Or, a tear and it hasnt healed? I dont want to be burning and in pain all the time, when before we were fine. I do have a gyno appt next week, but i wanted some advice asap :)
thanks everyone!

Does your boyfriend notice a difference in the taste or smell?
If so, then maybe it is not an std but it wouldn't hurt to go get tested. There are women who married to a man for 20 years and get an std and they just knew for sure their husband wasn't cheating, but he was. You have been with his guy for a year - you can't say with a 100% sureness that he hasn't cheated... you never know and it is always better to get tested and be safe then to let the problem continue b/c IF it is an std it could be something serious.
I am not trying to be negative or mean, I just wish people would be more realistic of what men and women are capable of doing.