What's your longest stretch of celibacy
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What's your longest stretch of celibacy
| Fri, 07-16-2004 - 1:13pm |
since you lost your virginity?
Sometimes I find people very judgmental of sex outside of committed relationships, and I'm wondering if it's because they wound up in successful long term relationships relatively early or moved pretty quickly from one relationship to the next.
I completely agree that sex is best in a loving relationship, but there are long stretches where I'm not in one of those and not having sex is simply unrealistic for me.

Leticia
I don't think of sex as something "to do" or a necessity in my life, unless I'm in a relationship. When I'm in a relationship, I'm a VERY sexual person, but when I'm not in a relationship, I don't even think about sex.
At my age, I might wind up being celibate for the rest of my life. I hope not, but if that's the way it works out, I have wonderful memories to sustain me.
However your comment: "but when I'm not in a relationship, I don't even think about sex". How can this be so when writing about sex? Whenever I am on these boards and posting, I am definitely thinking about sex!
Before this 3 year period I'd had another 1.5 year stretch.
thank GOD for vibrators right??
I agree with what was said in another post, when I'm not in a relationship I don't really get the urge to have sex with someone.
~Brookie
Married and went 7 months celibate.