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what's your perfect size?
| Tue, 02-05-2008 - 9:39pm |
Hey i got a question for everyone... How big is your SO's member or your member and in your opinion what is the perfect size...

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Just for the record, I didn't read Mrs Ps post as a challenge to your report. I think a lot of factors play into the overall topic, factors that can't be addressed in a simple fashion.
For instance, to ask "does size matter" really isn't a fair question, nor will it result in real answers. Many women don't know the average penis size to even compare, add to that the number of women who have actually measured their partners and you have yet another twist. What one woman considers perfect will not be the same as what another considers perfect, even when presented with the same options. (Have you ever checked out the wall of dildos at your local sex shop?)
Personally, I feel the "perfect size" question is a little like a "do you want that house" question. If I see a beautiful, huge house along the beach .... then sure, I want it. It doesn't mean I'm not satisfied living in my moderate home. In my answer, I also didn't consider the real life factors that go into "be careful what you wish for" scenarios. Having that big house will make my life no more complete .... I shopped for and bought the house that was the perfect fit for me.
To say "is length important" or "is girth important" are simple yes/no questions. The definition of "important" is what needs to be defined to get an accurate result, IMO.
I very much thought a larger penis was IT when I was much younger. I have since changed my way of thinking .... but that's not to say I would seek out a very small penis. There are certainly things that a larger penis can provide, but my experience has been that those very things give the larger penis holder the ability to be lazy if he so chooses. There was a time that having that full feeling was enough to satisfy me .... until I learned there was more. Sadly enough, I don't think that every woman on earth learns that there is "more".
I have found a sexual companion who I have shared experiences with that can't be judged based on the size of his penis. I've never measured him, but I would guess he's in the average range. If I were asked what I would change about his penis, my honest answer would be "nothing" ... especially after my 3rd or 4th orgasm.
You know, seeing the biggest cookie in the basket might make my mouth water, but it doesn't mean that it's the best cookie. I think when asking about size, many factors need to be considered to give the right answer.
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I don't think there is any way that you can assume that what is required by one individual naturally
has to be the requirement for all.
Just the same, I think that "most" women would wish to accommodate an average sized or somewhat larger sized penis, I think you will find few and far between, those who would dump the security of their relationships, merely to do so.
I do doubt that one in a hundred women hope to end up spending their adult life married to a guy with less than average attributes, but there most assuredly are women who do so, and at the same time, carry off faking happiness very well.
My overall point is this, and I guess that perhaps I've never tried to make it clear enough. This is what gets me on my soapbox:
Posts that all women don't care about size, and that the few who do are ignorant size queens.
I know penis size charts and that is indeed tough to figure how you have missed any bigger out of 15. Accept for a very unusual run by mere chance, perhaps there is some factor(s) involved that decreased your chances. For instance, despite popular belief that correlations don't exist between body parts and penis size, I've been able to uncover several with some, yes, very credible research, and many of
I was 5.75 measuring
I haven't been saying size is important (except to the 10% of women who are size queens). Sigh.
Edited 2/26/2008 4:55 pm ET by been-there
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