what's your perfect size?

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what's your perfect size?
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Tue, 02-05-2008 - 9:39pm
Hey i got a question for everyone... How big is your SO's member or your member and in your opinion what is the perfect size...

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 5:02pm
"My overall point is this, and I guess that perhaps I've never tried to make it clear enough. This is what gets me on my soapbox:



Posts that all women don't care about size, and that the few who do are ignorant size queens. What if I were to say that all women find size very important and the few who don't are ignorant or in denial? How ridiculous would that sound to you. Well, posts that say size makes no difference to all women sounds just as ridiculous to me."



Well, I think most of the women here are simply speaking for themselves and how they feel. I don't think that they are claiming to speak for all women. I do think you should keep in mind that you are on a forum that has been designed for women to discuss sexual issues in a positive manner. It's likely that the women here give thought to much more than just the size issue, especially those members who are a regular part of the community.



Personally, I only met one penis I didn't like ..... and it was too big. However, if it had been attached to a man whom I had deep feelings for, I'm sure that I would have found a way to have a satisfying sexual relationship with him.



I nearly met a penis that at the time I would have definitely deemed as too small too. I avoided that situation for other reasons, like it being attached to a co-worker.



"So then I try to reason with the all or nothing brigade by posting about deeper nerves, cul de sac, MRI study, fornix, credible poll (as far as can be discerned, and since I've studied indepth the percentages I know it's a good poll). It's a reasonable result poll. Not good enough though is it? For afterall, it didn't say all or almost all women don't care about size."



I'd be happy to take another look at that post if you provide a link. I'm not sure why you didn't get the response you expected, but it could be that members aren't interested in delving so deeply into the topic. Like the female orgasm, it sounds as if this topic might be a bit more complicated. As a women, I will say that sometimes it's nice to not analyze the why -- doing so often causes other problems.



"Can it in part be chalked up to a refusal to give the penis any power? Since many men do place at least some power in their penis maybe it's a way to slap a man in the face about it if he suggest his penis has any control over them?"



Hmmmm, perhaps there is another debate here. Personally, I have never been too fond of a man powered by a penis. I prefer a man to be powered by his brain ... and I prefer that brain to be secure enough to realize he's not all about his penis. That's not to say the penis can't be in charge if it's play time, just so long as it's all in the name of fun.





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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 5:06pm
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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 5:13pm
Been..You dont need to (sigh), I was just giving you another point of view..but you know what, dont even worry about those "size queens", its obvious they are not looking at the whole person, except for that one thing. For me whats important is the person, the rest is a bonus...Now give me a big..bigsmile.gif big smile image by svlaskamp.

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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 6:24pm

I'm stepping down off of my soapbox now. Btw, that

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 6:37pm
I would venture to guess that men are much more concerned with penis size than women are.




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Registered: 01-25-2008
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 6:51pm
Finally - a sensible male who understands women! I knew I could count on you, Steve!! Thanks for your valuable input!!!

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Registered: 10-15-2006
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:19pm

I would venture to guess that men are much more concerned with penis size than women are.


Do you have some evidence to back up that notion?


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Registered: 07-05-2005
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:31pm
He said he was guessing.
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Registered: 07-05-2005
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:33pm
All that reponse from a guess eh.


Edited 2/26/2008 7:35 pm ET by been-there
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Registered: 02-28-2006
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 7:34pm
No, but I'll put my facility with numbers up against anyone's.

(smiling back)




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