When is sex sex

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Registered: 03-13-2006
When is sex sex
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Mon, 03-13-2006 - 10:32am

Bill says he never had sex with that woman! Teens are having anal encounters and orgies and don't consider it sex if there was no vaginal penetration. By these definitions Cyber Sex is not sex, but its called sex. I had an encounters with a woman at a game site that ended up with a hand full of cum. Some would say, that was not sex. I believe whenever one exchanges emotional, shallow as it me be, or physical feelings, that is sex.

I'd be interested in the view point of the forum.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: joey2006
Sat, 03-18-2006 - 5:24pm
I wouldn't dwell on mistakes and choices made so long ago. What would be the point? We've all made our rationalizations, and our mistakes. I guess the whole point is to learn from every choice we make, the good ones and the bad.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: joey2006
Sat, 03-18-2006 - 6:48pm
If you get off watching porn or reading a f _ _ k book while your SO is away, is that cheating?
When there are at least TWO (living) souls involved and at least one set of sexual organs, then some form of sex is taking place..If that isn`t with your S.O. then its cheating.. I agree with Kat, phone sex and cybering satisfies my definition... Books and watching porn, while masturbating, do not meet the criteria. They fall into the fantacy catagory.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: joey2006
Sat, 03-18-2006 - 7:04pm
Caroline, take a look at it this way.. If you came home tonight and announced to your husband you had intercourse with another man earlier in the day, would he be any less upset if you told him you gave a man oral sex earlier in the day?..I`m guessing that his degree of disappointment would be about the same...right?.. So one doesnt have to have intercourse to cheat, therefore one doesnt have to have intercourse to have sex. As long as there are two living souls involved and at least one set of sexual organs involved, sex of some sort has taken place.(anal counts too..lol)

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