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When She's on Top
| Mon, 11-26-2007 - 12:10am |
Funny thing..... Love my gf, sex is great, but for some reason I seem to lose my erection when she is on top! I have looked online and can't find anything, anyone have any idea why this is happening or ever heard of this? Thanks a bunch

What else is going on when she's on top? Is there any light so you can actually see her? Does looking at her turn you on? Is she grinding on you, or are you trying to thrust?
Typically (not always), the WOT position is for her pleasure, and the enjoyment you have is from watching her, not actually having stimulation that might bring you to orgasm in itself. It's more of a state of mind. For some guys, having that mental image is enough to build a great fantasy for them during solo time, for others, it is something they enjoy doing for her. Maybe you're looking for more from the position -- since the brain in your largest sex organ, that can cause some problems with maintaining an erection.
Try focusing on the image of her on top, enjoying herself, grinding, body movement, boobs bouncing, etc.
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That happens to me too, and its the only position that it happens to