where do you sleep after an argument?

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Registered: 03-12-2007
where do you sleep after an argument?
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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 4:37pm

my bf spends the night just about every night. if we have an argument he thinks it's really weird that i still want him to sleep in bed with me. he thinks i should be making him leave or sleep on the couch or floor as punishment.

is that what people really do?

maybe it's the way we were raised b/c his childhood was a big messed up, but i remember once my parents were having problems and my dad fell asleep watching tv in a chair in the living roomand my mom was really offended/upset that he didn't come to bed

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 4:48pm
It has depended on what the arguement was about. If it's about sex, then he's going to the spare bed room ( there is a TV w/ cable in there so it's not so bad )! Otherwise we just lay beside each other and stew in our juices until someone is ready to talk about it and/or apoligize.
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Registered: 04-20-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 4:49pm
When my Dh and I fight I expect him to still sleep in our bed. I have jokingly told him he would be spending the night on the couch but he never has done that to me. I would definately be offended if he did though!
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Registered: 04-20-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 4:51pm


After a argument she sleeps cuddling by me since after arguments we tend to have really hot make up sex since all of that tenison that bulit up.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 7:05pm
We always sleep in bed, but if I'm really mad at him I will scoot over far enough so I'm not touching him...LOL and that pisses him off even more....LOL
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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 8:13pm
We always make it a point to resolve arguments before we go to bed. That way we sleep together, and try to ensure that pettiness doesn't come between us. Sometimes it can be an effort, but I think it's the best thing to do.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 8:32pm
We sleep in the same bed...Me on my side, him on his side...



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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 04-24-2007 - 10:22pm
Usually, one of us will stay up until the other has fallen asleep. Then who ever stayed up will crawl into bed. By morning, we are usually over whatever we were arguing about, but we never have had make up sex!


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Registered: 03-12-2007
Wed, 04-25-2007 - 12:11am

we've had make up sex...kinda.

we just have very different views on that. if we have sex, he thinks everything is all better. but i think that yeah, things are better, but we still have work, so he gets upset when i bring it up or i'm still upset.

i just want sex. i know everything will be fine, so we should do it, but he thinks it's wrong. i CANNOT hold out at all. i have needs!!! :)

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Wed, 04-25-2007 - 7:44am

One of us never sleeps on the couch or spare bedroom

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Registered: 10-13-2006
Wed, 04-25-2007 - 10:57am
Always together, we don't go to bed angry. Even if that means staying up until 4:00am to feel better about things.

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