where do you sleep after an argument?

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Registered: 03-12-2007
where do you sleep after an argument?
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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 4:37pm

my bf spends the night just about every night. if we have an argument he thinks it's really weird that i still want him to sleep in bed with me. he thinks i should be making him leave or sleep on the couch or floor as punishment.

is that what people really do?

maybe it's the way we were raised b/c his childhood was a big messed up, but i remember once my parents were having problems and my dad fell asleep watching tv in a chair in the living roomand my mom was really offended/upset that he didn't come to bed

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Registered: 02-09-2006
Wed, 04-25-2007 - 11:04am

I think that it is perfectly normal to still want your bf to sleep with you even if you had an argument? What's so wrong with that? Absolutely nothing.

Granted, sometimes, the fights are huge and he will sleep on the couch or in his son's room..but that's his choice...

It was so funny...the last time we fought...I woke up and he wasn't next to me...and I found him sleeping in his son's bed (son wasn't there that night)...and so I b*tched him out the minute he woke up and asked him how he liked sleeping in that bed verses sleeping next to me....he's like what the heck are you talking about b/c you are the one who told me last night that I couldn't slepp with you in your bed....

It was kinda funny b/c I forgot that I had said that to him...lol

But in the end, yes, I always want my babe to sleep w/me even if we have had an argument...that doesn't mean that I don't love him anymore....or that I want to neccessarily 'punish him' for arguing with me...

all arguments are, are a difference of opinion anyways...what's wrong with that? no everyone is going to agree with eachother ALL the time....that's impossible and unrealistic anyways....

I think that you are normal and just fine. :-)

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