Who likes oral sex???

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Who likes oral sex???
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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 1:38am
My mom decided to talk to me about sex stuff, even though im 22 and she said that most girls dont like to give oral sex. She even referenced how in Sex and the City, only Samantha out of all of the girls actually enjoyed it - and as we all know shes the "bad" and naughty one. So she basically meant that if girls like giving oral sex then they are whores lol...i dont think so but what do you all think???

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 1:51am

Sorry, but maybe that's Mom's take on it......She's speaking for herself, and how SHE feels about it. Oral sex is just a part of sex in general, and doing it does NOT make anyone "naughty" or "bad".

There are some women who do it because they like to please their man (and hopefully the man gives her the same in return)...and some do it because they LOVE doing it, just as they love having it done to them.

There are some like your Mom who don't like doing it, or don't approve of it.....but that's their choice....it doesn't make THEM right.

As an adult, you make your own decisions about what's right and what's wrong, and what YOU like to do.

There is NOTHING that is wrong or bad between two consenting adults in the privacy of their own bedroom (or any other room in the house!).

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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 7:35am

Her *opinion* of oral might be that she doesn't like it, she sees it as *bad* but that is only her opinion, nothing more.

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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 7:59am

I agree with what the other members have said. Liking oral doesn't make you bad, naughty or a whore. If so, then I certainly enjoy being my DHs whore.

Sounds more to me like your mom doesn't like oral. Preconceived notions can ruin a good thing, and many have been taught that oral is bad -- like you're mom is obviously trying to teach you. Some people think oral is degrading. Personally, I think it's very intimate. I enjoy receiving and I enjoy giving. I'm 44, have always enjoyed oral, especially giving, and I don't see that changing anytime in the future.

I hope as an adult, you'll make your own decision. Mom really doesn't belong in the bedroom with you anyway.



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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 9:25am
I know I'm not a whore.....I wouldn't say it's the act of giving it that I love, it's knowing how much my man loves it. I mean I enjoy it cause it makes me feel sexy and gives my man an unbelieveable amount of pleasure. My hubby and I triple love oral, often we'll just give each other oral and not even have IC.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 9:47am
I do not agree with your mom. She doesn't like it, and that's ok. I love oral, that does not make me a whore. As long as you and your partner are happy with what you're doing, that's all the matters.



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Registered: 10-28-2006
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 11:44am

Ha! My mom thinks the same! Has that ever stopped me NO!
I love to give when not begged! I love to recieve. It is naughty
to me but only in a (good way). Knowing that i can put him over the top
makes me feel really good! (All women are different.) Samantha knows exactly
what she wants and she takes it. I admire that in a woman. There's nothing
wrong with it! If you like to give then just do it and forget what mommy says.

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Registered: 05-30-2007
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 11:08pm

I enjoying giving & receiving oral sex very much. I agree with the others that it does not make you a whore. I kind of read into your Mom's comment that maybe by her saying that only the "bad" and "naughty" women like it that maybe that would deter you from doing it.

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 11:27pm

Ohh i never meant that it changed what i thought of it lol

I like giving it because i enjoy knowing my man loves it and tells me that im really good at it. I just wanted opinions hahah

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Registered: 05-30-2007
Tue, 08-14-2007 - 11:32pm

Oh, that's not what I meant.. I was just saying that maybe your Mom thought by saying that you wouldn't.. Like what our parents say/think has ever stopped any of us from doing what we want to..LOL

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Wed, 08-15-2007 - 9:53am

I love doing it for my man and it turns me on almost as much as it does him. I feel sorry for women that don't realize the dimensions of pleasure and intimacy they can develop with their partner (SO/DH) by doing this for him AND enjoying it (a man enjoys it more if he KNOWS that you enjoy doing it).

In the privacy of a couple's bedroom ... I believe that nothing they both agree to should be cause for concern to ANYONE else.

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