Who likes oral sex???

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Who likes oral sex???
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Tue, 08-14-2007 - 1:38am
My mom decided to talk to me about sex stuff, even though im 22 and she said that most girls dont like to give oral sex. She even referenced how in Sex and the City, only Samantha out of all of the girls actually enjoyed it - and as we all know shes the "bad" and naughty one. So she basically meant that if girls like giving oral sex then they are whores lol...i dont think so but what do you all think???

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Registered: 08-15-2007
Thu, 08-16-2007 - 5:12pm
I say keep sucking what you like, HE will empower you for it Then learn new tricks during it and add them to spice it up and he will just adore you....Be the best wife who cares if your "nasty" or what ever

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Registered: 08-06-2007
Fri, 08-17-2007 - 10:45am
i disagree, so what if your mothers boyfriend or husband went down and gave her oral sex would she think it was disgusting or would she enjoy it? i lean more toward the likeing. so would she say her man or husband was a pig? no, he was doing it out of shear pleasure for her. same thing with a female. doing it to please her man. i enjoy doing it, because i like the satisfaction my man gets out of doing it, same thing with him he loves doing it to me. for us its like foreplay after were do we have sex. i only agree with your mother if the female who is doing it likes to run around and do it to anyone, then that would be considered a whore. your mom probably did it before, and if she didnt then she cant knock it untill she tries =)
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Registered: 11-16-2005
Fri, 08-17-2007 - 12:02pm
I prob should have mentioned shes 51, married to my dad for about 28 years and was born in Iran lol...trust me she never did it.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 08-17-2007 - 12:12pm

Every time I see the title to this post, it makes me want to jump up and down, shouting "I do, I do!"

I know my Grandmother recently was talking about oral sex being dirty. I suspect she never did it either. I just listened to what she had to say (she was talking about teens) and found other areas of the conversation I could contribute to. I kept my opinion of oral sex to myself, and didn't let her opinion sway me. I do, however, find that it's something I chuckle about frequently now. Sayings like "Well, Grandma never did it that way" have never been more true, lol.

There are a lot of people who won't do oral. For some it starts with the negative feelings just like your mom has. I would have also thought my mom never gave oral, but I was recently in the same company as her when a dirty joke (about oral) was told. She didn't react the way I would have expected her to IF she was that anti-oral. She also doesn't always "get" jokes, so now, I just don't know. I'm happy to keep it that way :-)



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Registered: 08-06-2007
Fri, 08-17-2007 - 2:12pm
okay that explains her answer, LOL but anyways everybody's different its not a disgusting thing if it was then no won would never no about it and it will not be considered SEX
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Sat, 08-18-2007 - 2:41am
The best oral given to a man is from a woman who actually likes doing it.. We can tell if the woman is just doing out of "duty"..Enthusiasm makes all the difference.
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Sat, 08-18-2007 - 11:12pm

Dont listen to your mother. She was probably coached to "grin and bear it". So the advice she gave you is one step removed from that. Who knows why she said it? Maybe to deter you from doing it, maybe she is concerned about your reputation, etc.

Why shouldnt someone enjoy pleasuring his or her partner? Besides that...it is a turn on.

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Registered: 08-24-2007
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 2:29am
Yea oral sex is great.. just as good as any other sex. But im a guy so i guess its obvious that ill like it lol :)
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 6:44am
Welcome to the board bigguy8546. Thanks for joining in.


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