Who is more to blame in having an affair

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Who is more to blame in having an affair
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Sun, 09-05-2004 - 11:03am

Who is more to blame in having an affair



  • The "other" woman/man
  • The one who is in a relationship
  • Both parties involved are equally responsible


You will be able to change your vote.



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Registered: 09-08-2004
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 9:31pm
Well...I could have been a hooker too...maybe a street walker, you know....low class scum. Anyway....I in no way think that "what" a man does for a living in any way makes him a "class number" -- know what I mean? In fact, if I were a street walker(which I'm not going to tell you, for my own reasons), I'd think I were better than them...crazy, I know...but I've been known to have warped logic.

P.S. You know what they always say....so true too..."There's two sides to every story." Poor innocent babies...I know...they were so tortured by their miserable wives. Thank goodness there are those like you(and maybe me), who were there to take care of their needs. Imagine if we weren't? Oh gosh, the thought...


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Registered: 08-04-2004
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 9:35pm
No, it's not. It's a night of lust, period. An affair is where there are emotions involved and many sessions and get togethers take place.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Wed, 09-08-2004 - 11:32pm
>>Sheesh! Whatever girlie. Lecture on. I don't care.<<

Since when is stating your opinion lecturing? Obviously you two don't agree, but there is no need to label it a lecture because you don't agree. I have not seen her say anyhting about you personally, so don't get so defensive.

Leticia

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Thu, 09-09-2004 - 1:06am

No, I don't. They seek me out. They ask their friends, etc. I entertain married and single men as well.


  

   who_reallyknows

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Thu, 09-09-2004 - 1:19am

They have no reason to lie to me. I'm a high class call girl. Or actually, I WAS one. I'm moving to Nevada next month to be with my true love and getting out of the biz. I did it for 15 years. They had no reason to lie.


Ok, I was taking you right... Then really isn't

  

   who_reallyknows

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Thu, 09-09-2004 - 2:06am





  

   who_reallyknows

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Thu, 09-09-2004 - 2:55am
<<<<<<>>Sheesh! Whatever girlie. Lecture on. I don't care.<<

Since when is stating your opinion lecturing? Obviously you two don't agree, but there is no need to label it a lecture because you don't agree. I have not seen her say anyhting about you personally, so don't get so defensive. >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Ok I don't think you should disagree with their disagreement!

  

   who_reallyknows

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Thu, 09-09-2004 - 8:00am

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 09-09-2004 - 8:13am

Carla, I am not lecturing, I am stating my opinion just as you have stated yours.


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Registered: 04-06-2004
Thu, 09-09-2004 - 8:50am
you're serious aren't you? I think your logic is laughable. What about when you take vows for "better or worse" does that mean, unless my wife is neglecting me sexually and then its ok if I find that somewhere else. or when they vow to be "faithful" Im sorry if your vows said- I'll be faithful when it suits me, but if it doesn't- watch out hunny!

God forbid your "true love" should have an affair on you because one day he decides that you aren't what he wants anymore. I wouldn't want you to take all that guilt on yourself-blaming yourself for his infidelities. That is what you would do right?




Edited 9/9/2004 8:58 am ET ET by skeehn2000

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