Who "woke you up" sexually?
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Who "woke you up" sexually?
| Mon, 03-12-2007 - 10:23pm |
I think for many of us, our early sex partners may have been fun and intimate, but at some point in our lives we had a partner that just lit a sexual fire in us, someone who helped us take it to a whole new level through emotion or example or whatever. If this happened to you, who would it be?
Greg

I think it being with the right person that you feel TOTALLY comfortable with - that you can just open up with - without worry about what they will think of what you want to do/try etc. My SO is that woman. She never did hardly anything until she met me and I NEVER would have considered letting a woman handcuff me (real ones - she used to be a deputy sheriff) naked to a bed -- but with her -- within a month or so after we were intimate - I did not hesitate to ask her nor was she unwilling to let me handcuff her.
There was/is an absolute trust and love there. I can openly ask her to try different things w/o feeling like she will judge me... For instance, I have always wanted to be anal stimulated (or try it) while having sex - and while being given a BJ. She had no problem doing that --
I have wanted to be tied down and had syrup licked off me and my nipples bitten (not real hard) etc and she is willing to do that - as well as we made love and had just pure sex in the backyard - daytime and nighttime...
A fellow named Neil. It was after a breakup of a long relationship where I just didn't enjoy sex. I thought I would always be the girl that got bored with sex, the wife that all the comedians make fun of because sex would be few and far between.
Then I met him, and all we did was have sex. It was amazing, and exhilirating, and awesome!
After that, I've never grown bored with sex. Actually, I think I have a higher libido then my current boyfriend.
:)