A WHORE

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Registered: 01-05-2005
A WHORE
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Wed, 01-05-2005 - 3:02pm
My ex say's i am a whore. I have dated several guy's,i did not have sex with them. Am i to be labeled as a whore? I told him he needs to find out the definition of a whore.
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Registered: 07-03-2003
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 3:27pm
He's probably just pissed that you've dated around. Sounds like jealousy. He probably still has a thing for you. Don't worry, you know the deal and if others judge you based on what he says, then you really don't want those people in your life anyways.
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Registered: 03-25-2003
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 3:45pm
Why do you care what your ex says? He's your ex you should not give it a second thought.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 4:34pm
Sounds like your ex is a sore looser.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 6:10pm
He's trying to bait you with these accusations but I would imagine he's a "whore" himself if he's using THAT definition! LOL! It's time to ignore him. Don't continue to dignify his comments with a response.
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Registered: 11-03-2004
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 6:16pm

First, you are not a whore. Yes, I agree with the others it sound like your ex is a sore loser.

Second, I have a problem with this word as with many others that are used as sexual put downs. If a man has a alot of sexual experinces with different women, he is called a stud. Is he a stud? No, just experienced with alot of different women. A women who has alot of sexual experiences with alot of different men is not a whore or any other name. She is just expereinced. Does that mean they are going to be better sex partners, not necessarily. They could be the worst sex partners in the world. And those who have little or no experience could be the best sex partners in the world.

I feel it is through these chat rooms and reading and watching and expermenting and most of all communication that we learn to be better sex partners, lovers, spouses, significant others, boyfriends and girlfriends.

Name calling only shows that a person only uses a very small part of their brain. The part I call the ignorant part.

Good Luck.

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Registered: 10-18-2003
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 6:29pm
He's and EX. Who cares what he says?

Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Registered: 01-05-2005
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 6:30pm
Thank you all for your replies.I think you all hit the nail on the head--- he is a sore loser,he's jealous and childish.I am not going to play his childish games.. We had an on again off again relationship for 11 yrs and i played his games. I am really sick of him, and i will continue to date until i find the right person for me,whether i date 5 guys or 15 guys.
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Registered: 10-18-2003
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Wed, 01-05-2005 - 8:08pm

Or just one more!


I planned on df being the first of many dates with many men after my divorce ... now i'm marrying him! lol

Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 12:06am
Who cares what your ex says, or thinks? It's none of his business WHAT you do! It's probably his nasty mouth that was one of the reasons for breaking up with him.
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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: purplegirltoo
Thu, 01-06-2005 - 3:27pm
i would like to respond,the answer is no,ther's nothing wrong with dating diffrent or as many guys as you want,you are longer commited to him,if you where commited at the same time,then maybe that's diffrent,i wish you well