Why am I embarrassed??
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| Tue, 10-26-2004 - 8:00pm |
I'm new to the whole sex thing, well, actually, I've never had sex. I've never given or received oral either, and I'm in a relationship right now that has gone further sexually than any other relationship in the past.
Anyways, I absolutely love it when my bf touches my breasts, or lightly traces his fingers on my body. It just sends chills through me. However, I'm not the biggest fan of him touching me down below, and I can't figure out why exactly.
It seems that he always has to have his fingers down there. I get bored, and push away. When he tries to make motion, it doesn't feel good at all, but he keeps asking over and over does it feel good, does it feel good. I just want him to lay off sometimes, because for one, it doesn't feel good, and secondly, sometimes, his poking around actually hurts.
All in all, I'm somewhat embarrassed to tell him what works for me (trust me, I know, LOL!) and I can't figure out why! I just need some support, some of you other girls out there to tell me that this is all natural, all normal, it happens all the time, and give me some pointers on how I can make this enjoyable for me!
Maybe too that all it boils down to is I'm not ready to go to this level in the relationship. I don't know.
Thanks!

It sounds to me like you
Hi Stargazingrl:
I totally agree with Tish about your last sentence.
All in all, I'm somewhat embarrassed to tell him what works for me (trust me, I know, LOL!) and I can't figure out why! I just need some support, some of you other girls out there to tell me that this is all natural, all normal, it happens all the time, and give me some pointers on how I can make this enjoyable for me!
Maybe too that all it boils down to is I'm not ready to go to this level in the relationship. I don't know.
From a guys point of view, I had to be TRAINED by my wife on pleasing her.