why cant i orgasm during sex?

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Registered: 06-16-2004
why cant i orgasm during sex?
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Sat, 04-30-2005 - 2:53pm
hello, im a bit concerened. ive been with my partner for nearly 2 years now and i can orgasm during sex, during foreplay i can no problem. in past relationships i couldnt either, is there something wong with me or is this a common problem? if so what can i do about it?
someone please help me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-27-2004
Sat, 04-30-2005 - 5:52pm

It's very common. 80% of women do not have orgasms from intercourse because the vagina has little or no feeling inside, with the exception of the "g" spot. Your vagina is not your main sexual organ, your clitoris is. If you want orgasms during intercourse, then you need clitoral stimulation at the same time. You can do it, your partner can do it, or your position can do it. Woman on top is one of the best positions for that.

Learn how your body works, and teach your partner. Men seem to think that penis in vagina is all that it takes, and they're not aware of the importance of the clitoris.

For more information, check out www.the-clitoris.com