why can't i tell when my wife wants sex

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Registered: 12-28-2007
why can't i tell when my wife wants sex
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Fri, 12-28-2007 - 1:00am

Happily married man for nearly 12 yrs. great relationship,

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 1:24am

Maybe that's the only "clue" she knows how to give!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 10:50am

Welcome to the board, tdogg75.

Have you ever tried talking to her about this? Asking if she is satisfied, or if she would like sex more often?

As Sakura said, she may have been raised that good girls don't go there. She might need reassurance from you that it's okay for her to initiate.

Outside of talking to her about it, I would try to read her reaction to you. If you flirt with her during the day, or touch her throughout the evening, you should be able to tell if she's receptive to those things, or if she's trying to shrug them off. Often, that can be a good indicator of what she's up for.