Why can't more women be like my gf?
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| Tue, 02-19-2008 - 11:45pm |
I just recently met a wonderful girl. She's sharp, sweet, incredibly attractive, and best of all, she has absolutely no sexual inhibitions. There's nothing she will not do. We had sex on our first date, had sex at the end of every date and sometimes even have sex instead of going out on a date. We're still dating casually right now, as she agrees we should see if we're sexually compatible before we commit to a relationship.
Why can't more women be like this? Why do most women have to require a guy to dish out a ton of money and time on dating and courting before sex even comes into the picture? This is how it should be.
Either way, there is one problem when we do have sex. She gets pretty dry pretty fast, if you know what I mean. Is there anyway to tastefully and sensitively suggest she use some lube?

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Awesome response, anothertall guy...
Some of the best dates I've been on did not require a dime... just time...
Well, it seems like you must also be ok with the fact that she is having sex with other men right now too. hmmm, guess it works for you.
And now to answer your question about why other
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Oh, I see. when I posted I didn't realize that you don't actually want a relationship, you just want sex. Well, then that's a whole other story. Like PP said, there are PLEANTY of women who just want sex IMO and are willing to do it with whom ever and when ever. You just need to realize that not "all women are like my GF" because they don't all want just sex, some actually want a relationship.
"You must have been living a very sheltered life.......because LOTS of women DO have sex for their own fun and pleasure.
"You don't need to be sorry for me since I am in fact enjoying myself. I feel sorry for you because you are closing yourself off to that part of the male/female relationship. My DH has never once viewed it as a "chore" to take me out and enjoy my company. In fact he is usually the one trying to get me go out. I have a lot of fun sitting across the table from my DH flirting with him through dinner. "
You enjoy it because you're at the recieving end of the deal. You're a woman. The man asks you out. The man drives to your place. He picks you up. He buys you dinner. He buys you tickets. He asks about you regardless if he's interested or not, and at the end, you can still write him off and never call him again.
That's how it is for most guys. Contrary to what some of you guys may think, the truth is that women reject more men more often than vice versa. The vast majority of dating doesn't go anywhere. I can't even begin to tell you how many tens, maybe hundreds of hours of driving and talking and hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars that I and many, many other men have spent on dating that didn't even end in a goodnight kiss.
It's such a relief that I finally met a woman who won't require me to bend backwards for her physical affection, or leave me constantly wondering if I'm even going to get it. I think the world would be a better place if more women were like that.
Edited 2/23/2008 3:02 pm ET by megadose
Hi Maggie,
I really love having sex too, so I don't really think that that is the factor.
I think that woman tend to value different things and she may be one that does
I think this dude is a dufus. I agree with AnotherTalldude, and most gals here. Yeah, there are 22 year old hook ups and well thats what they do. There are plenty of 22 year young college girls learning who they are and figuring out this and that. This guy is way out of reality. When he turns 30 (3 or 4 really) he will realize gals do not tolerate this attitude, he will be quite celibate, or have to pay for it. FB's just do not last forever, and he will always be in search of an FB.
I have never heard of gals at 42 years old who are still living with roommates and have been FBs since highschool.
Goodluck when you start running gray and 22 year olds laugh at you, and 35 year olds tell you to get lost.
you are so far out of reality dude, have you even graduated from any school yet?
This seems like a 17 year old boy fantasy that every time you walk down the street you see a girl a and you lust at her that she wants to jump you in the alley.
You = ROTFLMAO
Hello megadose,
Let me introduce you to the 21st century....
Not all woman expect a "deal" where "
Oh,
passion plus
I agree with you.
I was just wondering why
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