Why can't more women be like my gf?

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Why can't more women be like my gf?
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Tue, 02-19-2008 - 11:45pm

I just recently met a wonderful girl. She's sharp, sweet, incredibly attractive, and best of all, she has absolutely no sexual inhibitions. There's nothing she will not do. We had sex on our first date, had sex at the end of every date and sometimes even have sex instead of going out on a date. We're still dating casually right now, as she agrees we should see if we're sexually compatible before we commit to a relationship.

Why can't more women be like this? Why do most women have to require a guy to dish out a ton of money and time on dating and courting before sex even comes into the picture? This is how it should be.

Either way, there is one problem when we do have sex. She gets pretty dry pretty fast, if you know what I mean. Is there anyway to tastefully and sensitively suggest she use some lube?

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Registered: 09-14-2007
Fri, 02-22-2008 - 7:52pm

Hi Maggie,


The first part of my response I guess related to you saying:


"And now to answer your question about why other

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Fri, 02-22-2008 - 8:05pm

Apologies Misty for posting under cl.


Naughty PP :o(

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Sat, 02-23-2008 - 8:16am

It's nice to see you back, Passion! I've missed seeing you around here.

(With as much trouble as the system was giving us all yesterday, I'm surprised you were able to post at all!)



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Sat, 02-23-2008 - 3:07pm

"Hello megadose,

Let me introduce you to the 21st century....

Not all woman expect a "deal" where " The man asks you out. The man drives to your place. He picks you up. He buys you dinner. He buys you tickets." It sad if thats all you have been exposed to. I now understand why the situation you are in, seems so ideal."

I think you should introduce more of your peers to the 21st century because that's what a lot of women still expect from a man. It just infuriates me that a woman can allow a man to go all out of his way to do all these things for her and then deny him at the end.

Do you deny that this is what most dating is?

"Let me tell you, when you find the right woman; a woman that isnt all about a "deal", then you will see that there can be more to a relationship than what you think you have now."

Maybe, in the future. But right now, I'm a young guy. My goal for the next 10 years or so is getting laid, and that should be your goal as wel.l

"Oh, one more thing I forgot to ask....

Would you consider her as a long term prospect,"

So long as she continues to put out.

"and if you did, would you be "constantly wondering" if she is going to give it to someone else; "without bending backwards for her physical affection"? "

No. Because I know the reason she had sex with me so quickly is because she's attracted to me and wants me too, not because she's a whore or a slut or anything.

That's what you women don't get. You think we men will think of you as whores if you jump in bed with us quickly. We don't. If a women a sleeps with a man she's dating right off the bat, I promiss you, he won't be thinking. "Wow, what a freaking slut." He's thinking. "Awesome. She's attracted to me, she enjoys sex, and she won't make me pay out the ass with expensive dates and dinners for it." Those are all good things in a man's eye.




Edited 2/23/2008 3:15 pm ET by megadose
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Sun, 02-24-2008 - 1:47pm

May I ask how old you are? And if your happy with your current gf, why do you care what other women do?


Me, personally, I like to get to know someone before I hop into the sack with them. That doesn't mean we need to go to anyplace fancy that costs lots of money. I am a simple, down to earth person. I am not materialistic.



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Sun, 02-24-2008 - 4:43pm

;o)


Thanks!


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Sun, 02-24-2008 - 5:01pm

"It just infuriates me that a woman can allow a man to go all out of his way to do all these things for her and then deny him at the end."


LOL!! Are you insinuating that if you pay then the end result should be sex. Of course any woman with at least 1/8 of a brain would deny that dating is not all about who pays and who puts out.


Most dates I've been on have involved very little money. I would much rather a walk over an expensive or inexpensive dinner for that matter.


What you refer to is superficiality. You expect sex so you assume woman expect to be pampered for it in return. I'd say 99% of woman that have the attitude you describe are in the sex industry, those of which aren't, should be....


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