Why do female pussies stay so tight
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Why do female pussies stay so tight
| Thu, 12-22-2005 - 8:14am |
My husband and I have been togather for over three years and he says that my clit never gets loose it still like a virgin. Why is this?

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I can't help but laugh, but not at you dear. I know exactly what you're talking about here. My boyfriend in h.s. actually signed my yearbook, this was after our break-up and we remained friends, "keep it tight baby". My x-h always told me I was tight. Even after our divorce, b4 I remarried course, he would call begging me to just have sex with him saying he wanted some of my tight p. Dh now says the same, that he can't believe how tight I am. Says that his x was "big", by that I assume he means loose, and that the longer they did it the bigger she seemed to stretch causing less friction and taking longer for him to get off.
My dh's "member" is what I consider to be normal sized. I do those exercises, can't remember what they're called now, to keep that muscle tone and use that muscle sometimes to give a pulsating effect when dh's penis is pulsating as he ejaculates and/or as a little thank you squeez squeez from pus to penis after sex. But perhaps the fact that I keep it toned adds to the "tightness" factor. He can go from finger penetration which is snug even when wet to penis penitration and it be tight even wet back to finger and I will quickly be snug on his finger again. It's like I stretch just enough for what is there and no more and then I quickly snap back (such as to come back to finger size from penis size).
I would definately suggest going to see your ob/gyn if sex is often painful for any reason. You might even mention being tight to your ob/gyn and ask why this is. None that I've ever been to have found anything different, abnormal, etc. with me. I am just simply tight. Perhaps our muscles just don't relax as much as others, perhaps other womens muscles relax too much. We're all different even with having the same thing. Doesn't mean they all function the same. Some women have multiple O's some do good just to have one. Some tend to be dry, others have pleanty of natural lube produced.
I count it as lucky myself and the fact that having babies doesn't make you bigger is true too......I've had 4 vag births. All just fine. The most I ever had to push was 5 times to get baby completely out. Guess what, puss is still tight as ever.
You are awesome, there girl!! Someone that understands "my pain"!!!!!!!!
It was a little difficult to tell if she was glad about it or concerned about it. I think any woman like this should have it checked out or at least mention it to her ob/gyn. You never know these days. Otherwise enjoy.
If anyone was being an ass about things it was you. Dakine was right. There was no need to blow up in her face without reason just because you got your panties in a knot. I don't know what you got offended. Her answer was short and concise, but not offensive. If you think that your clitoris is "tight" then you DO need an anatomy lesson. I'm not being mean about it - or smartass either. Simply stating a fact. Noone expects you to know all the correct technical terms for female genitalia, but it doesn't hurt to learn them if you want to have a meaningful and informed discussion about things.
If the lack of "expansion" is a problem then you SHOULD see a gynocologist and have an examination and a chat. The most common reason for problems with being too tight is a lack of foreplay, nervousness, and/or not being relaxed or lubricated enough during intercourse. If all these things are OK and you are still too tight then you need to talk to a Doctor.
They are called keggels (hope I spelled it right) and the muscles are the PC muscles.
When I first read her post I assumed she was concerned about being too tight. As it turns out she is only bragging and I guess thats a good thing.
Alot of women could benefit from those exercises. They can help to increase the level of stimulation for her and him. So for the women that have trouble with orgasm with intercourse, it can help. Also for the men that have trouble with orgasm with intercourse, it can help.
If a women wants to do those exercises, all she needs to do is to repeatedly contract and relax the muscles like if you are trying to hold back peeing. Or better yet there are aids you can use that are called vaginal bar-bells. They are shaped something like a miniture bar-bell with a shaft and a ball at each end. Usually stainless steel is best. They weigh about a pound. The ball on one end is larger than the other end. I am sure they come with instructions but the way I guess they work is to insert the ball end (start with the bigger ball) in the vagina and practice squeezing on it. You can do this in a standing postion, probably best in the shower, and the idea is to keep the bar-bell from falling out. You can also exercise by squeezing on something soft like a soft toy. Or better yet, exercise on him if he is willing, and what guy would'nt be. The exercises are good to do after childbirth to get the tone back in those muscles.
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