Why do I feel like I am going to urinate

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Registered: 06-21-2004
Why do I feel like I am going to urinate
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Mon, 06-21-2004 - 10:18pm
I'm 24 and I live with my boyfriend. We have been together for four years, and are open to communication about sex. Yet, have never experienced an orgasm. During sex I get to the point where I feel like I need to urinate, but then I have to hold it in. I have tried masterbation and it feels good, but I am never ale to finish out because I urinate. What's wrong with me, and how can I fix it?
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Mon, 06-21-2004 - 10:47pm
It's very common to feel the need to urinate when you get close to orgasm. Are you sure you are urinating, because what you describe sounds like female ejaculation. Urinate before you have sex next time, so you know for sure what it is. Next time you feel the need to pee, just let go and enjoy :o)

Leticia

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 06-21-2004 - 11:56pm
There's nothing wrong with you! When you're sexually aroused, the whole vulva is engorged with blood, including the area around the urethra, which gives you that "feeling". You should always empty your bladder before sex (and after to prevent UTI's) and you can't urinate with an empty bladder.

If you're getting "g" spot stimulation, it could be female ejaculation, which is NOT urine, and there's nothing you can do but let it happen. Protect your bed, because it can be soaked. FE isn't experienced by very many women, so go with it, and enjoy it.

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Registered: 04-21-2003
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 9:55am
I agree!! It can soak an area pretty good. But this time, I soaked DH instead of the bed. I was on top, which gives me the strongest orgasms and all of a sudden he was all wet. But thankfully, we keep towels nearby. LOL!

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