Why do I need to pee?
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| Sat, 06-04-2005 - 6:38pm |
Hello
Me and my boyfriend have been in our relationship for some time now, we regularly touch each other and have oral sex, and more recently we have started experimenting with penetrative sex. My question is this; why, even when I don't drink much beforehand or even have relieved myself first, do I feel the need to pee almost hourly while we are cuddling and touching? Even when he does not touch my clitoris I get this sensation. The oddest part is that if I do go to the toilet, I'll pass quite a significant amount of urine. I wouldn't mind but we have trouble enough getting me wet enough for comfortable penetration anyway, and if I take too long in the bathroom he loses his erection.
Is there anything I can do to stop this happening as it's very irritating and sometimes I'll even carry on being uncomfortable to save my boyfriend's annoyance - it really bugs him although he can see I can't help it. It bugs me too! Can anybody help?
If it helps I usually pass water 4-5 times a day.

Could be that the pelvic congestion which results from sexual arousal is putting pressure on your bladder and urethra and that's normal.
It's also possible that you are feeling the beginnings of female ejaculation. Next time you feel this sensation, and of course, when you feel more comfortable with experimenting, don't get up to relieve yourself and just continue with the stimulation you're enjoying. Some women say that "urge to pee" sensation will lead to ejaculation.
Also, I would suggest using some KY or other lube if natural lubrication is a problem.That's what it was created for, that's why it sells so well because we ALL use it occasionally, if not all the time. I can't imagine NOT using a lube for manual stimulation anyway!