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Why do some guys do this
| Thu, 11-17-2005 - 5:27pm |
Okay, this really isn't a sex question but I guess more about attraction and I am just trying to figure out why some guys do this and some don't.


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I wasn't offended by it in any way, I was just wondering what makes so guys say it.
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I don't think it was my clothes, I guess it could have been but
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Good point but that's why I say, "look but keep your comments to yourself."
Men simply cannot know what a particular woman's experience has been, so rather than offending unintentionally, it's just best to keep those comments to himself. After all, there are all kinds of ways to communicate appreciation. A big smile and eye contact being the best.
I personally don't care what some random man thinks of my butt, boobs, legs, etc. so that kind of inappropriate comment would never be appreciated by me and would be construed as disrespectful rather than flattering.
And btw, one man's "ogre" is another man's beauty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so there is always someone who appreciates a person's particular look that other's may not.
Edited 11/18/2005 1:50 pm ET by katmandoo2001
I'm sure these particular guys WERE just appreciative of your beauty because obviously, nothing bad happened. In THOSE particular instances, the comments were harmless. But who's to say that the next time will be the same?
The problem comes with feeling TOO comfortable in those situations. I always say, go with your intuition, it rarely steers you wrong.
Edited 11/18/2005 1:57 pm ET by katmandoo2001
Edited 11/18/2005 2:03 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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