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Why so dry?
| Thu, 05-03-2007 - 12:37am |
Stupid dry! Grrrrrrrrrr! Why on Earth do I dry up right after orgasm? I want nothing more than to make him cum but as soon as I cum I dry up like the desert. WTF? It is seriously killing the mood. Using lube takes it out of the mood for him immediately! Is it just me?

Welcome to the board sharonformike.
Have you tried using lube prior to beginning intercourse? There are a lot of long lasting lubes on the market, and one that doesn't feel too wet is KY Intrigue. It's very silky feeling, and although water based, it does not wash away with just water. A little bit of it goes a long way too.
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Hormones could be doing it. Also, are you on hormonal birth control?
I know a lot of women have trouble with lubricating, but I've never heard of drying up as you mentioned. Think about anything else that could be contributing after you have an orgasm. Do you start feeling tired, or thinking about other things? Does it take your guy a long time to finish after you have an orgasm? Are you drinking alcohol, caffeine or smoking?
Do you ever continue on to have another orgasm? Are you getting enough foreplay before he penetrates? Are you going at it for a particularly long time? I know DH lasts a lot longer than he used to, and depending on different factors, I can have trouble with dryness. Adding lube doesn't slow him down though. We rarely need lube at the beginning, but we have had to add it during from time to time.
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