Wife and I want Threesome
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Wife and I want Threesome
| Mon, 05-15-2006 - 2:14pm |
Hello
My wife and I are looking to do our first threesome. We both enjoy talking about it when having sex, and she really gets off talking about it. She has picked out a guy that she says does IT for her; they’ve made out and have done some light touching and rubbing. Here is the thing she wants to go to bed with him first and enjoy him without me, and then introduce me into the act later. Now this excites me to no end and she knows it. Should I allow her to do this alone at first and then join in, or should I insist on being there the first time? We are both open with each other and express our desires with one another. She say’s she will tell me everything that happens afterwards…..DO I LET THIS HAPPEN…
AROUSED AT THE THOUGHT!

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Nope, sorry. What I value, I protect and nurture. And my DH and I value our marriage too much to turn it over to chance. No, we protect what is precious to us.
When we want more spice & variety in our sex life, we turn to one another, not to someone else, to provide that.
"No risk hear at all except getting pregnant...."
That brings up an interesting issue. I know your wife is 43 but clearly she's still able to have children. If your wife became pregnant from one of your threesomes, how would you feel knowing that the child might belong to someone else? Would she have an abortion? Would she have the baby and raise it as your child even if it's not? Or would she raise it as the other guys kid? What would you tell your current children? Have you dicussed the possibilities of this with your wife and the other man?
Genealogical Musings
Genealogical Musings
When I was attempting to work things out with my first wife
she insisted there was "something wrong" with my considering
reciprocation in finding somebody for my own enjoyment on the side.
I asked her what she planned to tell our children, particularly our son,
when it all came out in the wash and she took the attitude that it was none of their business.
Our relationship ended at that point.
Later it seems that her Mr. "Big" wasn't able to provide for her financially, in spite of his highly revered talents.
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