wife exposing

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Registered: 06-03-2005
wife exposing
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Fri, 06-03-2005 - 12:42pm
I've recently learned that my wife who is over 40 years old is exposing herself,breasts and vagina to truckers as she passes them. She does not know I've found out about it.I need to hear from you all as to how common it is among women and how often does it lead to sex with me other than your husband?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: n2nonow
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 1:52pm
I don't know how common it is, but I (46 yrs old) sure don't expose myself to truckers or anyone and nothing would lead

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: n2nonow
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 2:50pm

IF you didn't hear this information from your wife, then it's heresay and suspect. So, I certainly wouldn't begin accusing her of advertising for a lover until you find out if it's even true or not.

I don't personally flash anyone, other than my DH occasionally, but it doesn't mean that your wife is promiscuous or willing to have sex with anyone else, just because she MAY be doing this. One doesn't preclude the other necessarily.

She may get a cheap thrill out of it or be giving herself a little ego boost by the reaction she gets. Whether it's appropriate or not is debatable though. To me personally, it's not appropriate for a married person to do.

But IF you find out from her that she IS doing this, then tell her you don't like it and you want it to stop.




Edited 6/3/2005 4:03 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: n2nonow
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:00pm

I'm curious how you found out, too. IF she's really doing it, she's playing a dangerous game....driving down a highway, and flashing strangers. It's pretty reckless driving wise, and it could get her in a lot of trouble. They might think she's "advertising" services and follow her!

I don't think there are any statistics on whether or not flashing leads to cheating, but if you think it's true, you need to talk some sense into her before she gets in trouble.

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Registered: 06-03-2005
In reply to: n2nonow
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:33pm
I suspected something for somtime, several months,becase of her change of style of dress. I actually saw her on two ocassions when she did not realize I saw her. I've been quiet as I decide what to do.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: n2nonow
Fri, 06-03-2005 - 4:47pm

I would be cautious in how you bring the subject up because she MAY have some self esteem issues using this flashing as an attempt to make herself feel more attractive now that she's older. Not a great way to go about that, granted, but it would make her actions more understandable.

All you really know is that she's dressing differently and that she's flashed a couple of times. Don't jump to the conclusion that she's cheating though.

Just get the facts from her and then tell her how you feel. She is your wife and you do have a right to know what's going on.