Wife wont trim bush?? Help!
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Wife wont trim bush?? Help!
| Wed, 07-05-2006 - 3:27pm |
My wife for some reason does not feel the need to shave, trim or whatever to her pubes....any ideas on how to get her to re-consider?? I trim mine short.

She might not feel the need to because there is no need to shave or trim.
For some reason? I would assume the reason is that she doesn't WANT to....and that's her right. You want to trim yours......fine, do it.
I can understand her, because I've tried it out of curiousity, and I hated it. I hated how it felt, I hated that it would have to be done frequently, and I have more important things to do with my time.
Other than during oral sex, I can't see why you would care one way or another. And, since "shaving" and "trimming" is a new fad......men have been giving oral to unshaven women for thousands of years! If you'd asked a woman to shave 50 years ago, you'd have been branded a pervert!
Maybe she'd agree to it if you volunteered to do it for her, including the upkeep!
Much as the others have said, ultimately it is her choice and if she doesn't want to, then she doesn't want to. I'm a bit surprised that you've gotten as far as marrying her and only just discovered that she isn't interested in doing it.
I suppose that you could talk to her and make it clear (but gently) that it's important to you and you would like her to at least try doing it. There is after-all, a certain amount of give and take in any relationship, and she may do it for you. But it may just be a matter that you don't see eye-to-eye about.
I'm going to assume that by your post, that you've already expressed your desire to her (since you want her to re-consider). Is it really that important to you? Sure relationships are about give and take, but I would weigh that in the context of "overall" attitude. There are some things that we just would not like to compromise on. If she's fairly flexible and pleasing overall(which I'm also assuming since you married her), then why not accept that she just may be not willing to compromise on this? Why does EVERYTHING have to be a compromise?
I can't see what the big deal is about trimming though (unless what you're suggesting is with a trimmer -- in that case it can be uncomfortable if it's too short -- longer is much more softer).
You can always do the compromising as well. Sometimes we make the sacrifices rather than asking it of our SO so that *their* happiness comes before ours. I'm sure she's done that for you too (and you may not even be aware of it). Ask yourself, is this really that important?
People are doing what it is that they like best most times. This is likely the way she likes it. Why not respect that it's her body, and she should have the freedom to choose how she is most comfortable in it. I think that the less demands we make on each other, the happier we are together, no? Allow each other the freedom to be who you want to be.....
Edited 7/6/2006 8:43 am ET by rain_dancer_iam