Woman on Top

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Registered: 04-19-2007
Woman on Top
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Thu, 04-26-2007 - 11:26am
I was wondering if anyone has tried the reverse cowgirl? I keep seeing that everywhere and I want to try it, but I'm not sure how to go about it. Is it easier than the other WOT position? I'm only 5'1 and my guy is 6'0, so being on top is a little awkward for me some times. Would this be easier?
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Registered: 04-21-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 11:34am
You just go for it girl. While your on top, just turn around while he is inside of you. I'm sure he will enjoy every thing you do.
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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: diana0207
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 11:53am

The difference in your height should have nothing to do with "comfort" with WOT. No matter how tall or short either of you is, when you're on top, you place your "parts" directly over his "parts", and you go from there.

The discomfort probably comes from you squatting on your heels rather than kneeling. Most people's thigh muscles aren't built for that movement, and your thighs get tired right away. Also, whether kneeling or squatting, you shouldn't be bouncing up and down, trying to imitate his thrusting. Leave the thrusting to him. When you're on top, it's for you, and what feels best is when you just "grind" into him, either with pelvic thrusts (Kind of "rocking" against him), or by rotating your pelvis in a circular motion.

Any position takes practice and experimentation to become comfortable. Think of it as learning to ride a two wheeled bike. You don't just get on and ride, it takes time and practice to be able to do it without falling off. You have to concentrate on balancing yourself, steering, etc. Eventually, you don't even THINK about balance or steering, you just get on and ride, and go where you want to go. It's the same with WOT or any new position. Practice.

As for "reverse"....I'm as confident as anyone could be about sex, but somehow I don't like the idea of having my butt in his face, lol But, some people love it, and they should do it. We're all different. Try it, you might like it, or not. Either way, practice.

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Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 11:59am
Thanks...yeah, I do tend to squat on my heels sometimes and it makes me tired and my legs hurt, which is why it gets uncomfortable for me.
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Registered: 01-04-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 12:13pm

I am a guy and find the reverse cowgirl highly erotic. Especially when she leans forward towards my feet and goes up and down. I just love to watch my p*nis go in and out and it is a great view of the rear. I sometimes insert a lubricated finger in the rear or play around a little there. If you are self-conscious of your rear maybe try wearing a crotchless thong panty. It wil give you a little cover but still allow for some fun. Finally, becareful when you try to sit-up as that sometimes puts some pressure on the p*nis.

C

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-19-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 12:17pm
Thanks! I'll be sure to keep that in mind when I finally try it!
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 1:28pm

I'm relatively short, and I too find it difficult sometimes to do WOT positions for any length of time. One thing that I have found to be helpful is to place a pillow on either side of him. This gives you a little lift and some extra cushioning.

For reverse cowgirl position, there are a lot of different visuals for him, and feelings for you. You can put your hands behind you and move that way (doesn't give him much visual, but feels good for you!). You can also be in more of a doggy position by being up on your knees a bit and leaning forward.

Here are a couple of WOT positions (with directions) that you might want to try:

The Thigh Master
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlpleasurepr&msg=7862.1&x=y

The Randy Rider
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlpleasurepr&msg=7937.1&x=y

Enjoy ;-)



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Registered: 04-25-2007
In reply to: diana0207
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 9:08am
i thought the position only worked woman on top?
maybe i was wrong but thats the only way i do it
go for it woman on top!
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Registered: 10-28-2006
In reply to: diana0207
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 3:30pm

Well I'm 5'2 and DH is 5'9. I tried it i didn't like it at all!
Size might have something to do with that. Doggy style is uncomfortable
for me to. I've heard that's because of size.

You just have to give it a try! Just tell him you want to try a
new position. That's what I did.

kareese.