Woman on top- Help?
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Woman on top- Help?
| Wed, 11-14-2007 - 6:09pm |
Hey...
Ok, so I've been dating my guy for about a year. We try different positions, but he won;t try toys or anything, so we aren't very sexually experimentive.
Recently he keeps asking me to go on top. I can count on one

First off, you do need to work on that confidence. He's likely asking you to be on top because he enjoys watching you -- and no matter how you feel about yourself, it's not how he feels. I'm sure he is very turned on watching you, and second, he wants you to learn this position because for most women, it is amazing! Many women can only have an orgasm while on top.
Here are some links that will teach you a bit more about the position, and some variations of the position:
Hot Tips for Women on Top
How to Master the Woman on Top Position
You on Top: The sexiest Mattress Moves of All
Our Favorite WOT Sex Positions
You can also practice these by straddling a pillow or two. If you're nervous about him watching you, ask him to leave the lights off, perhaps play some music so you can get your thoughts lost, and try to enjoy the sensations that you are feeling.
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Hi missdee,
I feel so useless, I have no idea what I am doing.
Misty had wonderful advice for you as did many others. I think you are feeling as if your BF is expecting some sort of a performance when all he wants, more than likely, is to please you.
WOT is an intimidating position for some women. I agree that perhaps you should turn out the lights until you find it more comfortable.
I find it to be a powerful position as I feel that I have the control. If this makes you
Mrs P
You're making the mistake that a lot of beginners make.
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>>>Your BF may have more experience but he has no experience with you. The two of you can discover together what it is that
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