woman on top... not so good

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Registered: 06-30-2005
woman on top... not so good
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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 12:33am
ok well... he enjoys woman on top... but for me its not so good. Any advice on making it feel better for me

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 08-04-2005 - 11:18am

The reason you have not mastered it is because you're worrying about and


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Registered: 05-27-2005
Fri, 08-05-2005 - 4:20pm
ok, mount yourself on top of him... make sure you're super wet to make it more fun, grab his d***k, place it inside of you, sit on it all the way.. and start gridnig back and forth...arch your back a little bit (sticking your boobs out and your ass back) and grind back and forth into him... feel your clit rub against his stomach...
also...you know 'kegel excertises' well tithten up your p***y muscles inside, keep them tight and start going up and down on his penis... up and down...
so yeah.. that's how u do it...
have fun!
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Registered: 08-05-2005
Fri, 08-05-2005 - 8:09pm
I absolutely did not like it at first. It was uncomfortable and odd for me... but seriously after you get some practice at it, you'll love it! It leaves you in complete control and feels so gooood! My biggest word of advice is just don't kneel but do sit on your knees, get comfortable with just sitting on top of him, and take is slow and then build up as you get more comfortable with it. Have him hold on to your sides, it helps your balance a lot! :)
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Registered: 01-07-2005
Fri, 08-05-2005 - 9:00pm

"jealous of women who can master this position."

You too can be a master, IMO it just takes time and I don't "correctly" fits any position - it's all about what's enjoyable to both of you (and sometimes one of U). Like others have said, going up/down is not the best movement. Grinding it good, along with moving hips in circular motion. This year was the first time I've done this position and I'm just getting more into it, and just last week had first O with it. We both feel 'things' better in missionary, but WOT is fun to begin things. Mastering will take time: Try leaning forward; Previously others have suggested sitting away from him (your back to his face - reverse cowboy). Just relax and enjoy all of it!

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Registered: 05-28-2005
Sat, 08-06-2005 - 10:18pm

I so didn't understand all the fuss about this position. I hated it. It felt awkward and did nothing for me, until the last time we did it! OMG, I think I'm finally getting the hang of it.....lol.

Keep trying! For me what's worked is NOT going up and down, like we were doing previously, but going back and forth. What a difference!

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 08-07-2005 - 12:14pm

Mrs. Para that self-conscious issue too. The fact that I revealed it was my favorite more times than not and that we enjoyed it SO much really did the trick. I asked her how she could be that worried about it if I wanted that position so much anyway...kinda says something.

Regarding your view on it though, lol, she says been there done that anyway, but those days are gone. Oh, and also try padding your knees with pillows or something if its your actual caps that are hurting.

 

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 08-07-2005 - 12:21pm

Main thing that works for the Mrs. is to remember that the position is mostly for HER enjoyment anyway. While in that position, SHE is in full control. So whatever her body and body parts are in the mood for down there and in there, SHE controls it all: the depth, the angle the thrust speed or style of grinding. She controls EVERYthing just the way SHE wants it. When you women do that on top, we men just enjoy, simply cannot fail.

Although I fully agree to mix it up, remember to straddle him and him, easier than squatting and thrusting for most of us. You're not on top to imitate what he wants, you are there to enjoy what YOU want. Normally we men just enjoy you using us to enjoy yourself.

 

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