A woman's sweet spots

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Registered: 07-31-2006
A woman's sweet spots
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Mon, 07-31-2006 - 11:21am

Long time reader, first time poster. I find these boards very educational and informative for a 25 year old guy trying to understand the heart and mind of a woman. I have started into a wonderful relationship with a beautiful girl and when we are kissing and playing around she has said there are certain spots on a girl that can really turn her on... the problem is she won't tell me where on her so I was wondering if I could get a few hints from the women out there about there special spots. I've already covered neck, arms and breasts but the rest remains to be known. The other problem is she is more of a quiet girl not much of a moaner but I go by deepness of breath. Any help would help ladies.

Thanks
Tbone

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 12:45pm

That's pretty wierd. She's got them, but won't tell you where they are? I'd have to tell her to stop playing games, and either tell me or forget about it. If she want's you to go there, then she has to tell you where to go!

All women are different.....it could be something crazy like behind the knees.....the ears....the feet....

Someone once told my ex husband that women love their ears licked! YUK! He kept licking mine till I was ready to throw up, and MADE him stop.

Unless she's willing to tell you, she'll have to live without it.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-31-2006 - 3:18pm

Well, unfortunately, no one can help you with that. EVERY woman is different. Some women enjoy having their breasts and other areas fondled, licked and kissed and some can't stand it. There is no "one size fits all" map to follow when it comes to erogenous zones. For men or women.

We all enjoy different things so looks like your GF is going to continue to lose out until she decides to be more open. Remind her that you can't do much about those "sweet spots" unless you know what they are!

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Registered: 12-08-2005
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 12:09am
I say make a game out of it. Start at the top of her head and touch every spot as you work your way down and keep asking, "Is this one of them?". I think that would be fun!!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 08-01-2006 - 9:07am
Why won't she tell you where her spots are?

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