women bodies

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women bodies
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Fri, 08-11-2006 - 7:41pm
so i always wonder..what is the idea of the guys about the different shapes of our feminine bodies, different shapes and sizes of breasts, legs, hips..etc
any clue?
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In reply to: bonbony
Fri, 08-11-2006 - 8:23pm

Are you asking what men like?


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In reply to: bonbony
Fri, 08-11-2006 - 8:57pm

It's been my experience that both men and women have an idea of what hair and eye color, and physique our fantasy beloved would possess. Then you meet a special someone whose personality captivates you and those ideals fly out of the window. They become the most beautiful and sexiest person in the world to you because of who they are, not how they measure up to society's standards of beauty. Also, since very few of us are genetically gifted, it's actually refreshing to be with someone who isn't "perfect".

I have known shallow people who had certain physical criteria (edited to add: I mean very specific criteria like "big boobs" or in a guy's case, a big...you know) and wouldn't be happy with anything less, but it's also been my experience that that kind of person has the emotional and intellectual depth of a mud puddle and isn't worth getting involved with, anyway.




Edited 8/12/2006 12:29 pm ET by batgirl5
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In reply to: bonbony
Sat, 08-12-2006 - 12:20am

Every guy thinks different things. Fortunately, since there are millions of different women, there are also millions of different men....and they all think differently.

Do you and your girlfriends all think the same thing about men? Or have the same preferences in men?

Men aren't clones, they don't all think alike....neither are women.

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In reply to: bonbony
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 4:11pm
i am a kind of LOVING MY SELF , i can respect myself and my personal and physical image up to certain extent , but i cannot stand if i can find the man i love find it not HIS DESIRE to c me in such image, you know..this really offend me..and in some initmate situations, making any thing is really like a bird on a wire for both sides
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In reply to: bonbony
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 5:50pm
What are men's reactions to the differing feminine forms? Likely the same as ours to the various male forms. Probably ranging from great admiration to total disgust and everything in between. We all have our preferences.
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In reply to: bonbony
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 6:24pm
This is the attitude I went into my present relationship with. That if he didn't think I was beautiful and sexy, it wasn't going to work and I would just have to accept that and move on. I wasn't going to settle for anything less because, in my experience, the sex just isn't nearly as good as it could be. I think how you feel about the person really does make a difference, though. Before SO I had a certain picture in my mind of the kind of guy I wanted, and SO came along and challenged that criteria. He isn't as fit as the kind of guy I had in mind, but I found that this didn't bother me at all, and, in fact, I adore the guy and can't get enough of his body. My criteria changed to fit *him* because of how much I admire him and the way he makes me feel. Chemistry is important, of course, and that laid the foundation for our relationship. I think that if there are sparks between you and you're hot for someone's soul, it follows that you're going to be hot for their body. The true test of love.
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In reply to: bonbony
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 7:14pm
I somewhat agree. Even where it pertains strangers. I never find anyone disgusting or repulsive (physically). I see plenty of men that are overweight and even obese, but I never think "disgusting." Same thing with a person whose face may not be attractive. I never say "disgusting" to myself or anything negative. I do find that I say that to myself with respect to personalities though. Even if I do not find the person to be sexually attractive, it just never goes further than that. I have found men to be attractive regardless of their weight or their odd looks, even if I haven't spoken to them yet; but personality can definitely attract further or detract from a person's overall appeal.
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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In reply to: bonbony
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 11:31am

If you "love" a man who doesn't desire your type of body, then you love the wrong man!

As someone else said, we all have our idea of the perfect body. But if we fall in love with someone, we love their body, too. I like a TALL man, because I'm tall. But if I met a man who was short, and I loved everything about him, and he loved me, I wouldn't care if he wasn't tall.