Women's idea of GREAT!!! sex?

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Registered: 10-09-2005
Women's idea of GREAT!!! sex?
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Sun, 10-09-2005 - 3:24am
When women say that the sex in a relationship is GREAT!!! (not just good), exactly what do they mean? What makes the sex good with one man but great with another? My wife and I have a good sex life, but I'd love it to be great for her. Any thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated.
Thanks.

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Registered: 10-18-2003
Sat, 10-15-2005 - 9:50am
Well, I've had my share of not-disgusting but definitely not-good sex with now xh. And I would say there were one or two disgusting times following his affair ...

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Registered: 10-18-2003
Sat, 10-15-2005 - 9:52am

And there are a lot of people that don't always have sex with someone they love. There is a lot of "hooking up" and one-night stands and sex between people who don't love each other.


I've never understood that personally, but I know it happens.

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Choose your friends by their character and your socks by their color.  Choosing your socks by their character makes no sense and choosing your friends by their color is unthinkable.

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Sun, 10-16-2005 - 12:57am

I know they don't but I can only relate personal experience, not someone else's. I'm sure there are all kinds of disgusting sexual experiences that women could share. Thankfully, they're not mine.




Edited 10/16/2005 1:06 am ET by katmandoo2001
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Sun, 10-16-2005 - 7:21pm

My recent ex had a bad habit of being a bit immature, and after sex was over and I was lying there completely relaxed he would sometimes take some of our "juices" from me and proceed to wipe it all over me. Yuck! Talk about ruining the ecstasy. And because he was stronger than me there was no point trying to return the "favour" to show him what it was like. Other than that I can't say I've experienced any disgusting sex.

Janet

 


 


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Mon, 10-17-2005 - 11:04am
Yes. I would classify that as immature, too. But I think you could have waited for him to fall asleep first and then returned the "favor".....right over his top lip! LOL! OF course, YOU were the mature one, right?
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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 10-18-2005 - 12:17am
LOL, I love your way of thinking. It's a shame it's too late to do anything about it! Of course I was the mature one! Must keep that in mind for future reference.

 


 


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