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Women's Orgasms
| Sun, 04-23-2006 - 1:07am |
Ladies...
I have some questions about orgasms...
1. Do you have VAGINAL (not clitoral) orgasms during intercourse?
2. Do you ever have multlple orgasms? If yes, have you always had them or did you start having them later in life?
3. I've heard there is an area deep in the vagina called the "cul-de-sac" and when stimulated is what causes vaginal orgasms. Is this true?
4. I've also heard that it takes a longer than average penis for this area to be stimulated. Is this true? If this has happened to you was your SO penis longer than average?
Thanks for the info!

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1. Occasionally
2. Yes, always. Never had an orgasm till I was in my early 40's.....and multiples followed soon afterwards.
3. Heard of it, haven't got a clue what or where it is. "Cul de sac" means "bottom of the bag" in English. It must mean the cervical area, and for most women, that will cause pain. The "g" spot is what does it for me.
4. Not a clue.
5. It's tough to generalize.....we're all different.
1. VAGINAL orgasms during intercourse? YES
2. have multlple orgasms? YES, and later in life while in the 40s
3. the "cul-de-sac" when stimulated causes vaginal orgasms? Can't truly answer that one becasue I can't feel if he's in that area. He made a comment once about it getting tighter the further in he goes and I assumed this is the area he's talking about.
4. takes a longer than average penis for this area to be stimulated? Again, can't really say, However, the books say that during stimulation the uterus tilts which makes the area behind the uterus more open.
DW does not post on this board, but we've discussed these topics and I know her very well, so I feel I can honestly answer for her.
1. Do you have VAGINAL (not clitoral) orgasms during intercourse?
She always has orgasms during intercourse w/o any special attention being paid to her clitoris. She says that they feel different from her purely clitoral ones ( from digital and oral stimulation). She prefers the intercourse orgasms because although they are less intense, they are deeper, and more "whole-body", and more satisfying than the purely clitoral ones.
HOWEVER, while she doesn't specifically notice that her clitoris is being indirectly stimulated during intercourse, on occasion she does stop me during intercourse to make a small adjustment because I'm rubbing too directly on her clitoris.
2. Do you ever have multiple orgasms? If yes, have you always had them or did you start having them later in life?
She taught herself to have multiple orgasms with a vibrator when she was in her early 40s. She was 45 when we met and she started having multiples from intercourse with me after about 4 months. We've been together over three years now and she prefers the multiples from intercourse because she can have 10 or more of them, while about 3 or 4 is her limit from digital or oral.
3. I've heard there is an area deep in the vagina called the "cul-de-sac" and when stimulated is what causes vaginal orgasms. Is this true?
There may be some women who have this and enjoy really deep penetration. With DW , I'm sure it's her clitoris that is being indirectly stimulated during IC and in some positions probably , her G-spot.
4. I've also heard that it takes a longer than average penis for this area to be stimulated. Is this true? If this has happened to you was your SO penis longer than average?
Her ex-husband was longer than average and the really deep penetration only caused her pain and discomfort. They had to adjust their positions to handle it. Even with me ( I'm average), she very occasionally has a little discomfort when she thinks I'm hitting her cervix.
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1. Do you have VAGINAL (not clitoral) orgasms during intercourse? NO
2. Do you ever have multlple orgasms? If yes, have you always had them or did you start having them later in life? NO
3. I've heard there is an area deep in the vagina called the "cul-de-sac" and when stimulated is what causes vaginal orgasms. Is this true? DON'T KNOW IF IT CAUSES ORGASMS, BUT I'VE FELT IT WHEN I AM ON TOP (SITTING STRAIGHT UP) AND INSTEAD OF THRUSTING IN AND OUT DO MORE OF AN UNDULATING MOTION WITH MY HIPS.
4. I've also heard that it takes a longer than average penis for this area to be stimulated. Is this true? If this has happened to you was your SO penis longer than average? MY PARTNER IS AVERAGE SIZE. I THINK COUPLES WITH MEN THAT HAVE LONGER PENISES ARE MORE LIKELY TO FIND THIS SPOT BECAUSE THRUSTING CAN CAUSE THE WOMAN PAIN, SO THEY TRY THIS OTHER MOVE AND ARE THEREFOR MORE LIKELY TO STIMULATE THE SPOT.
1. Do you have VAGINAL (not clitoral) orgasms during intercourse?
Mostly vaginal but sometimes clitoral if DH can stimulate me there aswell, or if we are in a position where I can rub my clit against him, they are much more intense.
2. Do you ever have multlple orgasms? If yes, have you always had them or did you start having them later in life?
I have multiple orgasms occasionally, mainly if DH performs oral on me first, I can come from that and then go on to have more orgasms during IC. Only started having multiples in my thirties.
3. I've heard there is an area deep in the vagina called the "cul-de-sac" and when stimulated is what causes vaginal orgasms. Is this true?
Not sure, do you mean the g-spot? There is certainly a difference in my orgasms when DH can hit my g-spot.
4. I've also heard that it takes a longer than average penis for this area to be stimulated. Is this true? If this has happened to you was your SO penis longer than average?
I personally don't think this is true.
1. Vaginal (not clitoral) orgasms during intercourse?
No. Not without some clitoral stimulation, either directly or indirectly.
2. Ever have multiple orgasms?
Yes. Started having them regularly in my 30's. Before that, sporadically.
3. Stimulating the "cul de sac" causes orgasms.
I personally don't believe that. Typically, women respond to g-spot stimulation and that is located only 2-3" inside the entrance.
4. Longer penis needed to stimulate the cul de sac?
No, I don't think so. Position is more important. And if a woman draws up her legs during intercourse, she can shorten the vagina.
1. Do you have VAGINAL (not clitoral) orgasms during intercourse?
Yes. Not always though. It depends on the amount of arousal(has to be high) so it only occurs if it's my first orgasm.
2. Do you ever have multlple orgasms? If yes, have you always had them or did you start having them later in life?
Yes. Had them very young(my teens), but only during masturbation.
3. I've heard there is an area deep in the vagina called the "cul-de-sac" and when stimulated is what causes vaginal orgasms. Is this true?
For me it is. However, there are a few conditions that seem to "create" it. Let me elaborate for clarity. Whenever I am extremely aroused, I get this "craving" to be inserted. This is the ONLY time that I long for deep penetration(although it's not very deep at all -- I'll explain in a minute). I have different types and strengths of arousal. If it's a lesser or more local arousal, clitoral is all that I crave(even though oddly enough if penetrated at the same time, it's more pleasurable than without). However, if I am extremely aroused, I feel this intense need to be inserted and deeply. The reason that I know that the area that needs to be stimulated is not that deep, is because during masturbation, I often use my finger. The pleasure point is at the tip of the finger. I actually feel as though there is some type of insertion going on. In other words, it's not just an empty space or hollow tube(which you would think the vagina would be), there's something that is "opening" up as I press hard. It takes the actual massaging of this area in order for me to orgasm(which usually occurs quickly). I can't figure it all out. All I know is that it is a closed area(feels almost flowerery, as though it has petals) in the back of my vagina and it is highly sensitive(in a good way) during a highly aroused state. When I'm not in this state and just very aroused, it's basically dead(never calls out ot me to be inserted). In fact, I have very strong, satisfying orgasms through clitoral alone....so this really perplexes me. I can actually say that something happens to my vagina when I am in this extremely aroused state. It's as though it grows nerve endings, or they become more pronounced.
My theory is that the level of engorgement and the surface area of engorgement is dependent upon the amount arousal. The level of engorgement inside the vagina and even outside the vagina(vulva and clitoris) depends on the height and amount of arousal--it can go vary from minimal to maximum. Often in this state, the clitoris gets so engorged that it's like a rock, and it becomes extremely sensitive--too sensitive to the touch. Same with the vulva and the vagina(although touch is more than welcomed). I know when I'm in this extremely engorged state because I get that craving for penetration, and everything is so sensitive and extra "tight" even internally, that we both orgasm so quickly. I love and desire intercourse, but in this state, it's almost a necessity. The resistance created against the vaginal walls(due to the engorgement) creates an unbelievable sensation when something is inserted. It occurs to some degree during any arousal, but in the extremely-aroused state, I can orgasm easily, without clitoral.
BTW, the cul-de-sac is just another name for the natural "tenting" that occurs to the vagina--it extends during arousal and balloons out.
Sorry, I went on and on, but it was the only way to explain myself--it's very real for me.
4. I've also heard that it takes a longer than average penis for this area to be stimulated. Is this true? If this has happened to you was your SO penis longer than average?
See above. The tip of my finger can reach the area, so length is not necessary. It may just be the end of the vagina or the beginning of the cul-de-sac that is most sensitive--I can't quite pin-point it exactly(wish I could see how all of the organs are placed during different types of arousal); and it's not that I'm shallow(short vagina), because my husband is around 8" and I can for the most part, take him all in(I'm assuming I tent an additional 4")?
Just a note: The g-spot for me feels good during intercourse during normal conditions(aroused, but not extremely aroused). At these times, I like shallow strokes or for him to insert and remove himself so that this highly sensitive area(around the opening) can be stroked. However, though, with a finger directly stroking the g-spot, I find it uncomfortable(as though I have to urinate) or I often feel nothing at all(depends on arousal). It's all about the state of arousal--at least for my body it is. I know it well(I studied it)...can you tell? ;-)
Hope this answers your questions. Take care.
Edited 4/25/2006 7:30 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
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