womens' sex etiquette?

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Registered: 06-08-2005
womens' sex etiquette?
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Sun, 07-03-2005 - 1:03am

Ladies, is there some sort of sex etiquette where the girl compliments a man's package--or specifically comments on his size--as part of making him feel good, regardless of her real feelings? Or do you only say it when that's what you think?

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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sun, 07-03-2005 - 8:17pm

Hi iv aisha2004:

"I've also complimented smaller men with the fact that due to their perfect size, I can let loose and enjoy myself without worrying about impaling myself."

Hmmm, interesting idea; HAD NOT really thought about impaling a woman. With my 4 inch penis, I have NOT impaled any woman.

"I've complimented men on hardness and looks before"

Hmmm, LOOKS of the penis? On one of the threads, it was asked the following ways to describe a penis: 1-cute 2-funny looking 3-ugly (my wife's contribution) 4-discusting (my wife's contribution).

Mac

 

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 12:26am

I'm glad you finally made it clear that you're a male. In your original post, I though you were a female, asking when and how to compliment a man. NOW I get it, you're wondering if this female you had a "fling" with was being honest, or just complimenting you because she thought she was supposed to.

Now that I understand your question......I'd have to say that no one here can know if she was being sincere, or being polite. From a female point of view, my original statement still holds true. If you don't mean it, don't say it.....but I can't tell you which she was......and really, does it make any difference? She said whatever she said, and you liked it.

Also, don't put yourself down. Telling a woman that you appreciate something about her body does NOT make you a dork. You're saying what you feel. Male or female, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you feel something or someone is beautiful, then they ARE, at least to you. Even the most secure person in the world likes a compliment!

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Registered: 11-04-1999
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 5:30am

I'm a male with an average penis, about 6" when fully erect. Several women have blurted out "You're so big!" while we were making love. I am fully aware that my size is nothing unusual, and I'm quite happy with the size. I just always assumed that my partners were caught up in the emotional or arousal situation of lovemaking. If they were just being polite, I don't see anything wrong with that.

I dated a woman for 2-1/2 years who had very small breasts. Sometimes while making love, it would seem to me that her breasts were bigger. I wonder if it was part of her getting aroused, or if my own arousal just made them seem bigger.

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 8:20am

Perhaps honesty isn't always the best policy - your wife can't find anything to say about your genitals other than ugly and disgusting?!?!?! That's sad and terrible.

I find something truthful *and* nice to say when I'm doing the talking.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 7:00pm
Yes, man...breasts DO swell with arousal, right along with the labia, the lips on our faces, etc.

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