wonderfully kinky : )

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Registered: 09-18-2007
wonderfully kinky : )
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Sun, 09-23-2007 - 4:30pm

hello everyone

i havent done anything really kinky..or wild..so i was thinking.
tonight is going to be different : )~
im having my hubby pick up some handcuffs..and i intend on using them well. but i want some ideas. i neeeeed help. so can anyone give me some suggestions on what to do..just some ideas that maybe you have tried..or wanted to try..

maybe different suggestions of me cuffed..and then him. i have ideas..but i wanna know what everyone else thinks might be fun. thanks. have a great day..and have fun thinking for me : )

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Registered: 11-15-2006
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 7:21pm

Don';t know if I am too late here but try cuffing him and then teasing him visually till he begs to be released.


I did a whole striptease and lap dance for dh and he couldn't touch me unless I touched him and it lead to some amzing sex...well we always have amazing sex but the lead up was a thrill for him.


Just put on something sexy, lower the lights a bit and play some music. TOUCH yourself a LOT and just move as if you were already having sex with him.


Have fun!



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Registered: 09-18-2007
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:47pm

its never to late livingproof123!!

specially considering he doesnt get home till very late.
ive been thinking of different scenarios all day and was sending texts back and forth with him..and he expressed he wants me to be cuffed. well he wants both..but would prefer me..so maybe we'll just have to take turns and enjoy everything. thanks for your response. : )

have a good night...im planning on it

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 09-23-2007 - 8:55pm

You know we're going to want a report on this, right?

I haven't used cuffs before, but I have tied hubbies hands over his head, to the bedposts (spread out) or behind his back. I also like putting a blindfold on him when he's tied up.

Make sure if you cuff him to something that it's really sturdy. There's a good chance that he'll be pulling against the restraint quite a bit..