Would you agree to an open marriage?

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Would you agree to an open marriage?
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Sun, 08-15-2004 - 7:09pm


I would with rules of course, Would you and what would be your rules.

  

   who_reallyknows

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 7:12pm
I wouldn't, therefore there would be no need to set up rules LOL.

Leticia

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 7:26pm
I wouldn't want an open marriage. Therefore, no rules necessary.

I would consider a threesome if my partner was interested but there would be rules for that specific situation and therefore wouldn't apply to the marriage in general.

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 7:39pm
I would consider a threesome also if the third party was a man. I would maybe even go as far as to say if he would try a threesome my way I would try one his. the problem being my dh doesn't even want a two way with me most of the time..(lol)looks like I'll never have to try his way.

  

   who_reallyknows

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 7:49pm
>>.the problem being my dh doesn't even want a two way with me most of the time..<<

Is that why you have an interest in an open marriage? I don't think it's wise to complicate matters when there are already problems.

Leticia

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:01pm
My interest in an open marriage does come from DH’s LL problem. I do know it would complicate matters but I think it is ok just to think about it. You know the pros and cons. That is what I was trying to get from the question. I do think an open marriage would be better than an unfaithful one, which I do believe he pushes me toward.

  

   who_reallyknows

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:01pm
No open marriage for us, no threesome for us, neither one of us is interested in either one.






~Tish




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Registered: 08-03-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:22pm
that is good, I guess I am just venting tonight.

  

   who_reallyknows

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Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:36pm
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Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:41pm
If you haven't already done so, you might want to check out the Clashing Libido board also.

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Sun, 08-15-2004 - 8:46pm
I know thanks. It just gets to me now and then. I think sometimes he does it on purpose. You know like he holds out knowing I am bothered by it. But reading other LL’s post I am starting to kinda understand he isn’t holding back on purpose, but after a few weeks, it is still hard whether he is doing it on purpose or not. The thought of not bothering him with sex is kinda hard not to think about after this about of time.

  

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