Would you agree to an open marriage?

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Registered: 08-03-2004
Would you agree to an open marriage?
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Sun, 08-15-2004 - 7:09pm


I would with rules of course, Would you and what would be your rules.

  

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 10:14pm
My wife and I have always believed in monogamy. We are both geared to just loving one person. Neither of us has ever had sex with any one else. That's not bad for 49 years of marriage, with sex still a great and vital part if our marriage.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 11:41pm
>>That's not bad for 49 years of marriage, with sex still a great and vital part if our marriage.<<

Wow. I hope to be saying that when I have been married that long :o)

Leticia

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 11:55pm
No one can push you anywhere unless you're willing to go there.

If the marriage is broken, fix it. If it's unfixable, then end it. Then you can sleep with anyone you want to, any time you want to, with NO rules.

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 08-15-2004 - 11:59pm
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Registered: 08-06-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 5:17am
I would never agree to an open marriage. Why? There is no need to marry if you still want to have sex with other people. If I ever marry, I'm gonna marry because I want to promise my boyfriend that he's the only man in my life.

I believe in true love, and true love is only between two people.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 8:45am
Completely agree with you Gigi.

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Registered: 08-04-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 3:00pm
Yea, I would. Rules would be:

1. No falling in love, gotta be sex only.

2. Nothing routine - ie: no seeing someone more than a couple months - just a casual fling every once in awhile.

3. Get them checked out first. No bringing home any unwanted stds

4. Let me know what the heck you're doing when you're doing it.

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Registered: 08-04-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 3:05pm
I liked your comment about . EXACTLY! And most men will want this eventually. Not all. But that's the #1 reason marriages don't make it. I've never married, will never marry, but I do like to have sex with men, indeedy. I'm happy with my life, single, open and free to do what I want, when I want. I have 15 men I rotate and who pay me - not for everybody, I know that, but for me - I get plenty of attention, sex and enjoy my friends two dogs, traveling with friends, the guys and/or just alone my little self. It works for me. Marriage just isn't for me, but if I were to ever tie the knot, I would have an open marriage.
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Registered: 08-04-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 4:24pm
That is very cool. Congrats. Tough to come by in the world today.
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Registered: 08-03-2004
Mon, 08-16-2004 - 4:48pm
Thanks for being honest, I was really starting to feel like I was wrong for wondering.

  

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