Would your spouse benefit from this s...

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Sun, 04-17-2005 - 9:23pm

Would your spouse benefit from this sex board?



  • No, we know each other as well as we could.
  • Yes, he/she is simply NOT understanding my needs.
  • No, am the one who needs lessons.
  • Yes, he/she knows nothing about it at all.
  • Other.


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Registered: 03-16-2005
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 9:28pm
I think he could benefit, but doesn't have the patience to read all the good info!That's what I get to do!!
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 10:25pm
I would have to vote 'Other'. He used to be a regular here and posted often, but got bored with it after awhile!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 04-17-2005 - 10:41pm

I voted *other*.


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Registered: 07-22-2004
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 4:10am

Kinda like me being bored with the knitting message board and Mrs. Para yawning at the sports message board, etc.

I think it may mostly have something to do with , KWIM? If someone doesn't "need" this board, then they WILL be bored with it unless they have a friend or two that they like to chat with outside of email for whatever reason, or unless they just like to help, and help and help and help.

Wifey here got bored with it too: "Why bother, they all know everything!" RAOFL!!! She likes to read simply because I'm on it I guess. We benefit more from the articles, but enjoy the ideas here and there too.

Nice to have a board that can help in so many ways, so long as thats what people have it for I guess. Every now and then someone will have a problem that hits close to home and she'll want to jump in and share what worked for her, but then she worries about if its perfect enough or not, so she shies away most of the time and just lets me type it for her.

 

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Wed, 04-20-2005 - 4:24am

Mrs. Para was just as surprised by ends of the spectrum, LOL!

On one hand, she too was shocked at how insecure and gullible and uneducated and especially how risky the ladies out there were, while on the other hand, its just like being at work sometimes, LOL!, where Proverbs 21:9 really comes to mind. She apologized for thinking that had egos to bruise, RAOFL!!! As many times as your hubby had to yank you from the keyboard, you know what she's talking about, LOL!

Oh, SHE is now perfectly fine. My temp is finally under 101, so the worst is over. Everyone believes me now that I cough up at work more than I do at home...family tradition, lol.

You already know my opinion of stones and of anyone out there ridiculous enough to think that its pain is nothing, so your hubby still has our prayer for him.

 

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 2:30pm
I dunno, I don't *need* the board but I like it.
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Thu, 04-21-2005 - 2:32am

My DH thinks these boards are stupid!!

Seriously though....

After nearly 12 years together, I'm delighted to report that we are *still* discovering things about each other. However, neither of us needs boards to show us how to learn new sex things. It's all about exploring, reading each other and communication.

Some may have noticed that I never give *how to* advice. It's because I don't believe in it - I always push the communication line. What works for my DH won't necessarily work for other men, so why bother describing it in the first place? For the record, I never read the *how to* advice that others give either.

DH and I have fantastic communication, and when I post here, it's with the view of encouraging others to do the same.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 11:31am

Agree. My DH sees no point or benefit in sharing intimate sexual details with total strangers on a message board.

I, personally, find the experiences and opinions of others, interesting....anonymous or not.