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Wrong Name
| Fri, 08-11-2006 - 1:48pm |
My GF and I were having some fun last night using a few new toys we picked up. During this fun time she screamed out the name of a former guy that she had been with. In your own opinion, what do you think this means, should I be worried?

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I wouldn't get too worried about it. Yeah, it's unfortunate. I bet that she is kicking herself too. I've almost done the same thing even when I've been in a relationship that was 12 months old! The brain sort-of goes on automatic and sometimes it gets a bit muddled.
In a similar but different way, have you ever noticed parents that have more than a couple of kids tend to run through the names before getting the correct name for the kid that they are trying to yell at? They know who they are talking about, just pinning the actual name down when you're fired up can be tricky :-)
>>We have been to gether for two years. The toy was to say, bigger then me.<<
No I don't think that it matters at all. I really think that it's just her brain getting muddled up. These things happen and they are embarrassing and regretable, but I really don't think that you have anything to worry about.
Don't worry about the toy being bigger than you. She had fun with it if she's screaming out names and getting addled in the head during a fit of passion. So it's doing what its designed to do. Just remember that it's not a replacement for you! I'm sure if you asked her whether she'd rather have sex with the toy or with you that she'd quickly point out that she'd want sex with you.
I'm not sure that there is a good analogy for guys but how about this? Do you masturbate to porn? If you do, which would you prefer to have sex with? A playboy magazine or your g/f? Yeah the Playboy can get you turned on but it's no replacement for a real flesh and blood g/f, is it? If your g/f got jealous about a Playboy magazine you'd think she was a bit silly, wouldn't you? After-all, you know that the Playboy is fun but it's nothing that she should be jealous about, right?
Skeetstar, my brother-in-law has been married 4 times. He has made a few mistakes on names, so he decided to always use "honey" instead of her name so he wouldn't embarrass himsef again.
I would not pay any attention to your girl friend's mistake. It was just a subconscious thing. I bet she was embarrassed!!
I think it means absolutely NOTHING, and I think you should forget about it, and NOT worry about it.
We have no control over our subconcious.....sometimes something is triggered in our brain, and we have no idea why.
Leave your insecurities at the bedroom door. They don't belong in the bedroom! (They don't belong ANYWHERE in a relationship, for that matter!)
Who said anything about fault? I said he shouldn't worry about it. AND he shouldn't be insecure about it. GEEZ!!!
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