WTF is wrong with me?
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WTF is wrong with me?
| Wed, 04-09-2008 - 4:27pm |
I won't see my b/f for almost a week.
He is doing a fishing excursion with ALL guys, the ladies are invited Sunday.
I am seeing him for dinner tonight (he is cooking).

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If you are in the mood for sex then have sex.
I always hope for sex, (any & every night)
First off...I should have said that I have been diagnosed with obsessive compulsive thinking.
Do you trust him?
Everyone needs time to do their own thing, to be their own person. He'll feel suffocated if he has to only think about you 24/7.
I don't know why your dinner was so quick. Perhaps he was running behind on getting ready for his trip, and perhaps he could have planned the evening better. But not all people are really good at planning things out.
You were nervous about having sex, wondering if you should or shouldn't for this evening. Perhaps he sensed that from an earlier conversation or something, and was trying to be sensitive.
You might also want to consider getting some self-help books to work on your own self-confidence. It's something that you'll reap the benefits from in the long run, and it can help you to deal with some of the things that you're feeling in this relationship. Even people who aren't confused about their relationships, or how they should act, have second thoughts from time to time. Wonder if this or that is right, and this type of book can help you know how to redirect your thinking. It can be a great resource for when you're feeling down.
A relationship needs both people to give and take. It can't be all about you or all about him if you want to have a good, equal relationship. If you don't the idea of being alone for the whole week (or missing those couple nights a week that you would normally see him), then maybe plan things to do that make you feel good on those evenings. Hang out with a girlfriend, get a pedicure, watch an old movie .... whatever will give you something to look forward to doing just for yourself.
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You may not be sure what "normal" is, but you DO know what "ABnormal" is......and you know very well you're being abnormal.
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Missy!
You have to stop this stuff!
May you live for one hundred Autumns
May you be prosperous for one hundred Autumns
May you be healthy for one hundred Autmns
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sakura you write - You may not be sure what "normal" is, but you DO know what "ABnormal" is......and you know very well you're being abnormal.
cl-misty you write - It can't be all about you or all about him if you want to have a good, equal relationship.
I'm just learning this.
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