Yelling out, "Harder!"
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Yelling out, "Harder!"
| Fri, 04-01-2005 - 8:58am |
Okay, I've got a question for the women on this forum.
When you, in the throes of passion, yell out, "Harder! Do me HARDER!" or something like that, what is it that generally motivates you? Is it that you want more depth because you're tenting and need it deeper inside to be satiated? More of an impact on your clitoris? Could it be wanting to raise the animalistic intensity of the whole act? Is it the friction that you need more of?
More to the point, does anyone actually yell out, "DEEPER! I want you DEEPER!"?

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Absolutely!
I often yell out harder or faster, and yes, I do actually want it harder. It makes my man super excited too, so sometimes I say it just to get him going ;) It hurts sometimes, but it's not extreme so the little bit of hurt makes my pleasure that much more intense!
I don't typically yell out "harder" or "deeper." I will usually meet his thrusts more aggressively with my own or I will grab his butt which signals to him to grind or thrust harder, not necessarily deeper though.
For me, it's just the progression of the excitement of the act...just as it is for a man. You tend to speed up and become more urgent in your rush toward orgasm.
First off, I don't 'yell' during sex, it's more of an elongated plea. LOL!
"harder" for me means that I'm enjoying it but I need/want more intensity.
"deeper" is not in my vocabulary, however "there/thats it/you've got it" is my way of saying 'don't stop what you're doing because its perfect right there'.
>>"harder" for me means that I'm enjoying it but I need/want more intensity.<<
See, that's what I've understood as well. I'm having a discussion on another forum as to the definition of "harder" and as to the frequency of, "deeper".
Katmandoo -- this is the ironic thing. When y'all say harder because you're having an orgasm, you *mean* pick it up. When we're having an orgasm, we *are* trying to push ourselves in as deep as we possibly can. It's a semen thing.
Ekab333 -- as a matter of fact, I've asked all of them and they do mean pick up the intensity. My ex-wife had to be careful sometimes what she wished for because sometimes she'd let out this gasp and say, "Whoa, too deep." It wasn't painful or anything, but it was a gasping thing?? Hmm, I may have another thread question in mind.
goddess_musclegirl -- now when you yell out, "Harder! Faster!", do you also want it deeper?
Fascinating.
Thanks for the response!
Edited 4/2/2005 1:53 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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