YIKES! He's Too Short and THICK!!!

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Registered: 12-30-2003
YIKES! He's Too Short and THICK!!!
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Sun, 05-27-2007 - 4:14pm
A few months ago, I slept with a guy that I really liked. This guy is smart, handsome, and funny. He is a PHENOMENAL OFF THE CHARTS kisser. The problem: his penis is very short and thick. He is so short that he popped out of me during thrusting and he's so thick he could barely get inside me in the first place. I'm 43 and he's 34. I stopped seeing him a few days after our first encounter for another reason unrelated to the sex. He has recently started calling me and I haven't answered my phone. Is there anyone out there who has dealt with the short/thick penis and if so, how did they overcome it??
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Sun, 05-27-2007 - 8:36pm

Are you not answering your phone because he has a short, thick penis or because you really don't want to see him anymore?

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Registered: 05-26-2007
Sun, 05-27-2007 - 9:31pm
i have the same promblem with my fiancee,he got this very short penis,and what make it really bad that he is reallyyyyyyy fat..so if u knew how to deal with it,pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez share with me.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Mon, 05-28-2007 - 4:08am

I agree with Tish that you have to experiment to figure out how your too bodies fit best together.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 05-28-2007 - 6:00am

Welcome to the board im_toosweet.

I think that it's difficult to really tell everything there is to know about a lover after having sex just one time. He may have his own insecurities about his penis size, and this could contribute to the problem he is having -- until he gets more comfortable being with you. You mentioned that you are no longer seeing him, so I guess the question is more for general knowledge?

Here's a link that might provide some other insight:

Coping with His (Size) Insecurities
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/0,,drpatti_7kq,00.html



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Mon, 05-28-2007 - 7:18pm

Thank all of you ladies so much for your input. There was another reason I stopped seeing him. I broke down and called him yesterday and we cleared it up. QUICK FILL-IN: He works 2 jobs and has a building he is renovating on his own. I felt like he was avoiding me after we slept together so I broke it off. He has a very tight work schedule and I guess I didn't give him a benefit of the doubt.

A lot of it had to do with my own TRUST and insecurity issues. He called all the time b/4 we had sex but the 2 days afterwards I only heard from him once(for 5mins). It made me feel like he was playing games and since the sex WAS ackward, it gave me the excuse I needed to break it off. When he started calling again, I was torn about answering. The truth is, I really like his personality and character and I felt that we had potential as a couple. It just helps to know that there are ways to deal with the penis size. I might just give him another chance :-)