you don't like missionary??? WHAT!!!!

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Registered: 06-26-2007
you don't like missionary??? WHAT!!!!
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Tue, 06-26-2007 - 12:22pm

My boyfriend will try any other postion in the world except missionary.
That sucks! Because I looooove missionary.
I like looking at him, and holding his muscles!
And he won't do it.
He might even put his pants BACK ON! to avoid doing it.

What can I do and say to change his mind?
We haven't done missionary in months! And I'm craving it!!!

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Wed, 06-27-2007 - 4:35pm
I only refuse and deny my partner after I've tried everything else. Once I've gone so long with gentle and kind persuasion, it's time to play hard ball. Nothing gets his attention like several "not tonight honey"'s in a row!


Edited 6/27/2007 4:38 pm ET by danidi
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Wed, 06-27-2007 - 5:36pm

Great post Misty!

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Thu, 06-28-2007 - 4:34am
I couldn't agree more, Misty. If I was ever in a relationship with someone who was inclined to use refusal and ultimatums as a tactic for *winning* disagreements, I'm quite certain that I would be constantly carrying the built up resentment around with me to the point that it would very quickly have me questioning WTF I was doing in a relationship with such a controlling person in the first place. She would then be quite free to enjoy her *victory* -- alone.

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