your "numbers"

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Registered: 04-26-2004
your "numbers"
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Tue, 05-11-2004 - 12:08pm
hey y'all -i'm just wondering:

1. how many men/women you've slept with

2. how old you are

3. do you share your "number" with people you date? always/only when they ask/never? do they share the same with you?

4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number?

5. how many is too many for your partner to have?

6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin?

...i guess it's only fair that i answer first:

1. i've been with 6 guys

2. i am 29

3. i always share my dating and sexual history (not the details!), and so do they

4. no one i've been with has had an issue (but i know guys who say they would, which is why i'm wondering if you've run into those kind of people -if it's true ...and if it's just a matter of "no one has had an issue" ...yet)

5. i'd have to take into consideration their age ...no set number but sometimes i'll have a feeling of repulsion (like i met a guy who was 18 and slept with over ten people and was kinda yucked out ...but then i dated a man who was 40 and he had been with 15 women and his age put that number in perspective)

6. i don't think i'd mind so long as they're willing and open to trying new things -that they are comfortable with their body (and mine) and sexuality ...but the above mentioned guy who had more experience WAS wonderful in bed :)

enjoy! thanks! look forward to your responses! :)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 12:25pm
1. how many men/women you've slept with - 25 men - 0 women


2. how old you are - 29


3. do you share your "number" with people you date? always/only when they ask/never? do they share the same with you? i only share a few but the rest stay in the past


4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number? no biggie


5. how many is too many for your partner to have? dont matter the past is the past and that is where it stays


6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin? no i would not mind but DH was not a virgin when i met him. none of them were.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-24-2004
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 12:51pm
1. how many men/women you've slept with

46 women, 1 man, 2 MMF threesomes, 1 FFM threesome.

2. how old you are

54


3. do you share your "number" with people you date?

No.

always/only when they ask/never?

maybe some would ask -- When I was plying the field, I didn't usually go into it.

do they share the same with you?

Yes.

4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number?

Fine.

5. how many is too many for your partner to have?

Not a consideration, really.

6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin?

Nooo, but would be concerned if they were near my age and still one! LOL!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-08-2004
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 12:54pm
1. how many men/women you've slept with - 14 women

2. how old you are - 29

3. do you share your "number" with people you date? always/only when they ask/never? do they share the same with you? Yes, but very few details, and only if they ask.

4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number? Some shocked, most don't ask, or really care

5. how many is too many for your partner to have? Depends on age.

6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin? no i would not mind and in fact I would be extremely flattered.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-26-2004
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 1:41pm
How many women have I been with? Over 100

How old? 43

Do I share my numbers with others? yes if they ask.

Do they care? Not usually.

How many partners is too many for a prospective partner? Never too many.

Would I mind if my partner was a virgin? I wouldn't mind, but I prefer expereinced lovers.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-23-2004
Tue, 05-11-2004 - 10:40pm
1. how many men/women you've slept with --Zero

2. how old you are --27

3. do you share your "number" with people you date? always/only when they ask/never? do they share the same with you? sometimes I share, usually not, I just realized when answering this that I have no idea how many people anyone I have dated have slept with! It doesn't matter....I only know that everyone I have dated, except one, has slept with at least one person.

4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number? Except for current boyfriend and one boyfriend that was a virgin, most freak out

5. how many is too many for your partner to have? not really a concern for me, but I think if I was told a number and it was a lot (like 100 or something) Yeah, that would bother me...but I can't say a specific amount that would be too much

6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin? no, I wouldn't mind, however, one of us needs to know what we are doing, so I would prefer him not to be.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 7:58am
>>1. how many men/women you've slept with <<

Can't remember exactly. Twentyfive or so women. No men.

>>2. how old you are<<

Thirtyfive.



>>3. do you share your "number" with people you date?<<

Yes, if they ask and are sure that they want to know.

>>always/only when they ask/never?<<

I'll always tell them if they really want to know.

>>do they share the same with you?<<

If I ask them I'd hope that they tell me. Who knows if they are telling the truth?



>>4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number?<<

Some are shocked. Some couldn't care less. Most think about it and are OK with it.

>>5. how many is too many for your partner to have?<<

No such thing as too many yet. But anything over 30 and I would probably raise an eyebrow. Over 45 and I'd begin to wonder why.

>>6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin? <<

No. My ex wife was a virgin when we first met. If they were older than 25 I'd be curious but not necessarily worried.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 8:21am
1. how many men/women you've slept with

***12 men 1 woman



2. how old you are

***23

3. do you share your "number" with people you date? always/only when they ask/never? do they share the same with you?

*** yeah, if they asked. My bf said he really doesn't know, I said "like 3 or like 30" he said probably more like 30 but he didn't count

4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number?

*** its never been a problem

5. how many is too many for your partner to have?

*** I don't think there is a certain number but more than 40- 50 I would wonder what was up

6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin?

*** I wouldn't date a virgin, not necessarily because he was a virgin, but just because our morals, pasts, way we live would be too different. I do not believe in saving sex for marriage, I don't think sex is a big deal and I would think it was weird that someone had avoided sex throughout HS, college, and their 20s. My best girl friend is a virgin at 23. She's religious and really thinks sex is a big deal, she has also never really dated anyone seriously. Somehow, its not weird to me that she is a virgin. I also don't want to have to be the leader, I prefer to have a partner who is more knowledgable, adventurous and experienced than I am in the bedroom!

Sara

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 11:40am
I have been with 1298 men! I am 48. A woman.

(Nah, just kidding! Only four men including my husband.)

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-25-2004
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 1:55pm
Mine will be somewhat dull, but I figured I'd share:

<<1. how many men/women you've slept with>>

none

<<2. how old you are >>

20

<<3. do you share your "number" with people you date? always/only when they ask/never? do they share the same with you? >>

yeah, anyone I date longer than 1 date gets told I'm a virgin, mostly only if they directly ask or the subject comes up...I don't go around just annoyncing it randomly ;)

Yes, if I ask they usually reciprocate and let me know, and I usually do ask, more out of curiousity then anything else.

<<4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number? >>

None have freaked or anything, although most are a little surprised at a 20 yr old virgin, but most say something like 'impressive' though i don't really see why that would be impressive

<<5. how many is too many for your partner to have?>>

Hmmm...I guess it would depend on age, and circumstances, the guy I'm currently with has actually had sex with something like 11 women, and 'fooled around' with 25. And while that makes me a little intimidated as far has his experience versus mine, it doesn't really shock me or make me think hes a bad person...to each his own and so long as he's clean!

<<6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin?>>

No, but I'm thinking maybe one of us should know what we're doing before something gets stuck in the wrong hole (haha ;) )


Angel

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-21-2003
Wed, 05-12-2004 - 2:16pm
1. how many men/women you've slept with?

I've been with 5 men...no women

2. how old you are?

I'm 31

3. do you share your "number" with people you date? always/only when they ask/never? do they share the same with you?

I don't think it's necessary to approach the number with anyone you aren't serious with. I mean by my age, people pretty much know I've had at least one partner...I have a son, so it doesn't really come up.

4. how do possible partners/SOs respond to your number?

My Fiancee had no issue with it, nor did I about his number. It's in the past. As long as they never resurface, we're cool.

5. how many is too many for your partner to have?

He's been with 15. I think in excess of 30 would have been a little weird for me. But I could live with it.

6. would you mind if your partner was a virgin?

Yeah, now I would. My first was...so was I. I want a man with experience. I like to be satisfied. My DF is AMAZING!

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